Thursday, May 15, 2025

Endings and Beginnings by Maggie Lynch

An elephant and cat sitting on a bench

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As RTG stops their posting after 14 years of being in the blog space, my heart weeps a little because it has been a part of my blog viewing for all that time. Some of the authors on RTG have become a friend, others are simply admire what they do. The good news is I know that all these authors can be found elsewhere. On their own websites, on other peoples’ blogs, on substack, and a myriad of other places. I know I will be catching many of them in other places.


For myself, the past five years have been the story of endings and beginnings, definitely in that order. As I’ve aged, I am more aware of endings because more loved ones have died, and many people I don’t know personally but who have impacted my life (musicians, actors, artists, political leaders, and many others) have passed. Though I do grieve those losses and think about days gone by and how my life used to be, I also actively look for new beginnings. If I can’t wake up and expect a new beginning each day, I will find it near impossible to get out of bed.


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Description automatically generatedBeginnings can be small: new buds on my rhododendron bushes, a change in weather, the smell of a new coffee flavor in the morning, an email from someone I’ve lost touch with, a phone call from a grandchild. All of these are beginnings—a chance for me to decide what kind of day I’m  willing to work toward. How am I going to pace myself to take in the endings that will undoubtedly happen during the day and celebrate the beginnings? 


Beginnings can also be major changes in my life. Two years ago, I came out of retirement from academia to take on a part-time contract with a community college system in order tro support some financial needs of family members with health issues. I never thought I would return to academia. When I retired in 2015, I was committed to my “new beginning” as a full-time writer. I’ve enjoyed it and as I’ve been spending less time as a writer and more time in academia again, I’ve really missed that freedom. At the end of this academic contract, I will return to my writing life full-time in January 2026.


So, another ending and another new beginning. Though I’ve been a full-time writer before, so much has changed in the business, the technology, the competition, the readers and how they consume stories (print, ebook, audiobook, video). What I have learned during this period of less fiction writing is that I need to write regularly for my own mental health. I need to tell my stories. It is how I process the world—both past and present experiences. When I don’t have that time I suffer, my mental health suffers, my ability to stay on task in anything I’m doing suffers. I’m not my best self. I need the quiet time, the dreaming time, the time to create a world where justice is served, love wins the day, and people working together thrive.


A sunset over a beach

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The above picture is one of my favorites of all time, as a reminder of beautiful endings and new beginnings. I took this at Middle Beach Lodge in Tofino, BC (the west coast of Vancouver Island) in the early 2000s. My husband and I were on a one-week vacation trip and traveled all over the Island learning about indigenous culture, the arts, and stayed several days at the lodge. It was heaven. The picture is not color corrected at all. That is truly how it looked. I particularly loved the single red/purple line coming up the beach as if it was reaching toward the future. 


I hope all of you are also reaching to the future, finding a way to sustain yourself in difficult times. Don’t give up on your dreams as they are the essence of creativity. Always nourish that spark in some way—whether it is only once a week or once a month. Do not let that light go out.


I very much appreciate all of you who have followed me on RTG year after year. If you want to continue to follow me, learn what’s coming next with my books and future writing goals, below is a listing of the places you can find me. I hope to hear from you on one or more of these places.


Website: https://maggielynch.com

Substack: https://maggielynchauthor.substack.com/  Substack is now where my newsletter resides.  I try to post once per week with news about messy moments and heroic choices in life, in books, and in both the big and little things we do to survive and thrive.


BlueSky:  https://bsky.app/profile/maggielynch.bsky.social  This has replaced Twitter X for me.


Facebook: https://facebook.com/maggiewrites


Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mcvaylynch


Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/maggielynchauthor/


BookBub: https://bookbub.com/authors/maggie-lynch-875a4b99-667e-4237-bce1-25962e622286


Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/4947977.Maggie_Lynch


Dust Jacket Author Interviews: https://www.dustjacketauthors.com/



9 comments:

  1. What a thoughtful post, Maggie. Take care, and I'll see you on Substack!

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  2. A beautiful post, Maggie. We do change as the years go by, but writing can sustain us. I know it's my lifeline in these troubling times.

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  3. Thank you for joining us one last time, Maggie. Your support these past 14 years has meant a lot. And your mentorship as I took classes from you about marketing, promotion, visibility helped me make the decision with Sarah to take a stab at blogging.

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  4. Thanks to all of you for your support. My substack has been dormant this past month as I experienced my mother's passing and all that entails from grieving, to greatfulness at no more pain for her, to paperwork, service planning, and comfort with family and friends. I will be back posting within the next week. RTG gas been a mainstay in my weekly readings. At least I know it will remain archived here to revisit so many wonderful posts.

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  5. Maggie, You have been an inspiration and support. This post helped me understand why I need to keep writing for my own benefit. Thank you for all your help on this writing journey.

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  6. AS with all things, there is an end. I'm happy we and you were able to get in one last post and express how you've felt being here and where you plan to go in the future. Best wishes to a new beginning.

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  7. Maggie,
    You are one of the friends I've met here, and whose friendship I cherish.
    That picture is gorgeous! As Judith said your classes you've given have made me a better writer.

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  8. Maggie, so aptly put as to how life changes —- so many endings, and as we age, more. I agree we need to approach each day as a new beginning. Also, amidst the things and people we lose, be thankful for what we still have and practice gratitude. Not wasting time on anger or things we can’t change. I am so grateful for all of our writing community, this blog and you, always so inspirational and supportive.

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  9. Maggie, that's a lovely photo from Tofino. My DH and I took a Native canoe trip from there one 2016 morning. Beautiful, misty morning. We stayed in Ucclelet next door.Looking forward to your new stories. Can't wait for you to be back in the game!

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