Once Upon a Time there was this girl named Delilah (yes, this is about me). She grew up feeling as if she had been born in the wrong era. She never quite fit in with all the other children who were obsessed with dolls, video games and television. She found herself drawn to historical clothing, swords (real ones), boys who could yield said swords (no, not THOSE swords), and boys who could fall upon their knees for their lady when she needed it most. Her father, who was a single parent, encouraged her reading and her most curious obsession with days of old, thus sparking her crazy imagination to a dangerous boiling point.
And then...her father remarried. Delilah quickly discovered her stepmother made Cinderella's stepmother look like Mother Theresa. The woman, as it turns out years later, was manic depressive and wasn't diagnosed until after nine years of giving Delilah hell.
Throughout those nine years, Delilah's need to escape her real life and fall into an era that seemed so much more magical propelled her into looking for the ultimate fairy tale. Historical romance offered that fairy tale but it was never enough given Delilah had read every single historical romance there was to read in the library. So she started writing and threw herself into a world she could control like God (bwahaha). It was a beautiful, sweeping world she hasn't been able to leave ever since.
Okay...so that was the gussied up version of why I started writing historical romance. But if there is one thing I have learned about writers it is this: we all write for a reason. As Hemingway once said when asked what makes for a great writer, he said, "An Unhappy Childhood." And there's a truth to that. Something emotionally throws us into wanting to share our heartaches and joys and I have had my share of both.
I am obsessed with history and have been for the longest time. In particular, my fascination is for those things that were never discussed in history class. Like what sort of contraception did women use in the 1800's? Did they really have to be barefoot and pregnant or were there women who shook their fist at men who thought they should be barefoot and pregnant? And what about dildos? How long have those suckers been around? Surely, it's not a recent invention?
Needless to say, these questions led to the creation of my Sex Throughout History blog, A BIT O'MUSLIN This fascination also led to the creation of stories to reflect a history that is overlooked by society due to its scandalous nature and for the most part untold in historical romance (due to its scandalous nature). Historical romance has been sanitized for the longest time, trying to erase REAL history and just how scandalous it was.
As an example, venereal disease is not really a subject usually touched on in historical romance novels. In ONCE UPON A SCANDAL, my February 2011 release, the heroine’s father is dying from syphilis. It’s not pretty and it’s utterly heartbreaking. Because we’re dealing with romance novels, many people don’t want to see the ugly side of the reality most of these women (and men) faced. But what I've learned from my own hardships and the love I have found in my incredible husband is this: you can't understand what a happily ever after is or appreciate true love if you don't understand hardship. And that is why I introduce my characters to the reality of life so that when love crosses their path they are swept away into a world they not only appreciate but madly love.
That said, don't think my writing is all about overcoming depression, lol. I have a tendency to never take myself seriously and so you'll find that even with me touching on dark subjects, I will make you spit your drink out through your nostrils in laughter. Because that's the best way to survive life. Laughing even when things are most dire...
Delilah Marvelle's Blog, A Bit O'Muslin
I am obsessed with history and have been for the longest time. In particular, my fascination is for those things that were never discussed in history class. Like what sort of contraception did women use in the 1800's? Did they really have to be barefoot and pregnant or were there women who shook their fist at men who thought they should be barefoot and pregnant? And what about dildos? How long have those suckers been around? Surely, it's not a recent invention?
Needless to say, these questions led to the creation of my Sex Throughout History blog, A BIT O'MUSLIN This fascination also led to the creation of stories to reflect a history that is overlooked by society due to its scandalous nature and for the most part untold in historical romance (due to its scandalous nature). Historical romance has been sanitized for the longest time, trying to erase REAL history and just how scandalous it was.
As an example, venereal disease is not really a subject usually touched on in historical romance novels. In ONCE UPON A SCANDAL, my February 2011 release, the heroine’s father is dying from syphilis. It’s not pretty and it’s utterly heartbreaking. Because we’re dealing with romance novels, many people don’t want to see the ugly side of the reality most of these women (and men) faced. But what I've learned from my own hardships and the love I have found in my incredible husband is this: you can't understand what a happily ever after is or appreciate true love if you don't understand hardship. And that is why I introduce my characters to the reality of life so that when love crosses their path they are swept away into a world they not only appreciate but madly love.
That said, don't think my writing is all about overcoming depression, lol. I have a tendency to never take myself seriously and so you'll find that even with me touching on dark subjects, I will make you spit your drink out through your nostrils in laughter. Because that's the best way to survive life. Laughing even when things are most dire...
Delilah Marvelle's Blog, A Bit O'Muslin