Monday, October 7, 2019

My Top Two Real Life Heroes by Paty Jager



If my mom were alive, I'm pretty sure she would agree with me on my top two real life heroes. They are my daughters. I can remember my mom telling me how brave I was for driving 6 hours by myself with small children to visit her. When I flew to New York state to attend a writing conference by myself she said she would never have been brave enough to do that alone. My mom would be even more in awe of her two granddaughters. I know I am!

The oldest has a husband in law enforcement. That in itself is something many couldn't deal with. She is strong and has her faith and the knowledge her husband is well trained. She spends lots of time by herself with their two daughters, one of which has some special needs and can be a handful at times. Yet, my oldest takes it all in stride, holding it together better than I would. She can also shoot better than her husband, grow a wonderful garden, and keep her daughters' animals and poultry healthy. She is more rounded in her knowledge than I am.

My daughters when they were young.
My youngest daughter has six kids! The youngest is 2 months old and the oldest turns 15 this month. She not only home schools the three oldest children, but does it all alone while her husband finishes out his tour with the Coast Guard. This family of 8 is seven miles down the road from us. My husband helps out with the framing/ranching when he can and I help watch kids when I'm needed. But the majority of the work: building rooms, chicken pens, picking rocks, sowing fields is up to my daughter and the kids. She not only takes care of her family, she makes baby quilts for all her cousins as they have new babies, helps her in-laws, and designs book covers.

My daughters grown and starting out on their lives.
While I've always thought of myself as pretty self-reliant and undaunted by tasks that have to be accomplished, I do believe my daughters are braver and more self-reliant than I ever was or will be. They are strong women who are definitely my heroes.


Paty Jager is an award-winning author of 40 novels, 8 novellas, and numerous anthologies of murder mystery and western romance. All her work has Western or Native American elements in them along with hints of humor and engaging characters. Paty and her husband raise alfalfa hay in rural eastern Oregon. Riding horses and battling rattlesnakes, she not only writes the western lifestyle, she lives it.

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6 comments:

Sarah Raplee said...

Your daughters are heroes for sure! They are amazing women and wonderful role models for young girls.They take after heir mother.

Judith Ashley said...

They do have the same strong resilient independent traits of their mom (and dad). I can see why you are so proud of them and why they are your heroes as well as being the role models for young women.

Diana McCollum said...

Paty, what a lovely tribute to your daughters! I agree with Sarah and Judith, knowing you it was your strength that shaped them into the Wonderfull, strong and resilient women they became.

Deb N said...

Ditto on all that was said above me. I think as mothers we look at our daughters and wonder how in the world they handle it all, and how did they become such beautiful and loving human beings with so much to offer. But "knowing" their mother, they did learn something from you as a role model. And they have gone on to find their own way and skills and interests and... Beautiful post.

Susan Gourley/Kelley said...

Your daughters sound amazing. It is wonderful to hear about young people who are so hardworking and role models.

Genene Valleau, writing as Genie Gabriel said...

Agree with comments from others. Wonderful young women and you are also amazing, Paty!