Tuesday, February 28, 2023

The Universal Golden Rule of Happy Relationships by Sarah McDermed

Most of us have heard of “The Golden Rule”, but did you know it is taught by various religions and cultures all over the world? 

"The Golden Rule art print"  Copyright 2020 by Jeffrey Streiff
The Golden Rule

We are imperfect human beings, but if we strive to apply this universal rule in our relationships, we and those around us will be much happier in those relationships. It’s not easy, but that’s the nature of relationships. Positive ones require us to practice virtues like trustworthiness, patience, empathy, loving-kindness, and acceptance.

The Golden Rule, in all it’s iterations, tells us it’s not enough to coast along. Relationships require effort. They help us to grow, to do better, to become a better person—and in so doing, to build a better, happier, more just society.

What’s another virtue or quality can you think of that helps us practice the Golden Rule in a relationship?


6 comments:

Judith Ashley said...

Thanks for showing us the universality of the Golden Rule. The other saying that comes to mind is (paraphrased) you who are without sin, throw the first stone. Judging others and condemning them is easier than taking a look at our own choices.

Diana McCollum said...

If someone does not treat us well, find out why. They may be having a tough day, month or year. Maybe they were short with us , instead of taking offense, smile and start a conversation. I guess that would be
'support', caring.

Sarah Raplee said...

You are so right that being non-judgemental and humble are qualities that make for good relationships, Judith.Thank you for commenting.

Sarah Raplee said...

Diana, You are so right about not jumping to conclusions about why someone may be in a bad mood or treat you rudely. It's usually about them, not about you. As in, they would act that way no matter WHO was around them. Acknowledging them with a smile and showing empathy may open up a conversation. Having a stranger be caring and supportive can turn their day around.

That's what I would want if I were the one having a bad day.

Dari LaRoche said...

Sarah, Such a moving post to show a common saying we have all grown up with as a saying or belief in multiple religions around the world.

Sarah Raplee said...

Thank you, Dari. I'm glad you found it meaningful.