Friday, July 7, 2023

Adventures Along the Road to the Sand

 Hi, I’m Judith Ashley, author of The Sacred Women’s Circle series, soul nourishing romantic women’s fiction with light paranormal elements. My stories show you what life could be like if you had a place like The Circle where you are unconditionally accepted, supported and loved. And where, with this support, you make choices to overcome the darkest nights and choose love and light.

If you read my June post then you know I prefer Winter to Summer and Longer Nights and Shorter Days to the opposite. Knowing that, you might ascertain that I’d prefer Snow to Sand.

Actually I don’t prefer snow to sand. As you can see, I do however prefer the ocean as it's featured in my website banner. And no, that's not me in the picture.


Although from my upstairs windows in the winter when the leaves are off my neighbors’ trees I can see the top of

Mt. Hood with
Rose City Golf Course
in the foreground

Breathing in the ocean air calms.

Seeing the light shadows play on the mountains inspires.

I am blessed to live a bit more than an hour from Mt. Hood (closer to two with the way traffic is these days).

While I’m also two hours from the Oregon Coast, my favorite area is the Central Coast and that’s a little more than three away (and that also depends on traffic).

I remember the days driving to the coast before the highways were built. Winding two lane roads with careening log trucks, farmers towing threshers or loads of hay and the folks with trucks with campers and pulling boats with lines of cars behind them. No safe place to pass for miles!

One memorable trip I made to visit one of my adoptive families out along the road to the coast was adventurous! The farm truck in front of me carried the detritus from harvested corn. He wasn’t going very far, or that’s my excuse for him. No tarp covered the load. Within seconds my windshield was plastered with corn husks and corn milk. Windshield wipers were struggling. Of course I dropped way back.

All my efforts to clean my windshield using the windshield wipers and spray were minimal. I had some visibility but not much.

On a narrow, two lane country road there was no place to pull over and do what? I didn’t travel with hoses, buckets. Creeping along I made it to the family home. The kids came out to greet me and before I knew it, a car washing brigade had been formed.

My car was pristine when I left a couple hours later.

And where did that story come from?

Memories of that drive that if I’d continued would have taken me to Lincoln City, Oregon and a bit further Fogarty Creek State Park and a bit further from there Depoe Bay. My favorite places along the Oregon Coast.




I don’t spend time walking in the sand*** or wading in the ocean any more, I much prefer sitting and watching the waves crash upon the rocks, checking for the telltale spout of the resident grey whale and breathing in the ozone ladened ocean air.

***Reminds me of the time a friend showed me a hidden cove loaded with agates. The tide was coming in and I had my sweatshirt off and tied into a sling/bag. It and all of my pockets were full with agates. Remember, the tide was coming in!

“Oh, look at that one!” I’d shout and dash into the rising water to capture one more prize totally forgetting, in the rush of accomplishment as I snagged another stone, that I still had a steep path up the side of a cliff to climb to get to my car.

My biggest agate and
a bowl of smaller ones.
In hindsight, I can see how the “fever” did and still does take hold of people searching for gold, silver, turquoise, copper mines or whatever they see as having value.

The friend who’d showed me this place was beginning to panic because I kept going after “just one more”. Obviously we made it safely out of that cove before it was inundated by the ocean.

Safely at the top with prizes tucked away in the trunk of my car, I promised myself I’d go back again for more treasure. And yet every time I tried to find the narrow pathway to the beach, I missed it. Even though I looked for it for a couple of years, I never did find it.

I do still have those agates. Most I polished and used in making wreaths. I’ve a jar of them nearby and every time I look at them I remember the intense excitement of collecting agates in the hidden cove.

Yes, I’m conflicted. I do not like hot much less humid weather and I no longer collect agates because I no longer walk in the sand. And I do not like to shovel snow (I’ve a wonderful neighbor who usually does that for me). I still prefer cool even cloudy and overcast days that invite me to snuggle up to my computer and put words on the page.

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14 comments:

Diana McCollum said...

I loved the two stories you shared! What fun you must have had collecting those agates!

Lynn Lovegreen said...

Great post, Judith. I can picture your drives and agate collecting adventure in my mind. Enjoy that Oregon coast!

Dari LaRoche said...

Oh to visit that beach again to find more agates! Fun post.

Sarah Raplee said...

Your story about collecting agates brought back memories of our rock hunting trips years ago. So much fun! It does feel like finding treasure, doesn't it?

I love the Oregon Coast because it is cool and beautiful, and often uncrowded. Beachcombing is a lot like rock collecting or metal detecting: treasure hunting!!!

Barbara Rae Robinson said...

My mother loved to collect agates when my parents were visiting from CA. We used to go to Agate Beach and it was accessed by a path that was difficult to find. We had a lot of fun in those days.

Love the post, Judith.

Deb N said...

A lovely post. I'm with you, no matter the weather, it is always fun to see splendid views like Mt. Hood, or discover special coves where you can treasure hunt for agates. Snow and sand each have magical qualities.

Judith Ashley said...

Diana, It was fun and also exhilarating. I could easily see how someone succumbed to gold rush fever. At least if you found gold, you had financial wealth. Agates? Their wealth is in memories of fun times and being with a good friend.

Judith Ashley said...

Lynn, it is easy for me to promise you that I'll "love that Oregon Coast". You live in pretty spectacular country yourself. I doubt I'll make it to Alaska in this lifetime...maybe the next?

Judith Ashley said...

Dari, IF I could find that beach again, I don't think I could make the trek down to the cove and back up again. I was in my late 30's I think and in pretty good shape. I ran a mile each evening, etc. With the changes in weather and tides, I'm not sure the agates would be as plentiful as they were35 - 40 years ago.

Judith Ashley said...

Sarah, the hunt has its own rewards that, to me, are amplified when a treasure is found. And that one fine inspires further searching and the excitement builds. I still remember the Rush of Adrenaline as I dashed towards an incoming wave to capture "just one more". Heady stuff!

Judith Ashley said...

Barb, as a family we made trips to Agate Beach to search for them also. Actually Any Beach we were walking along, we were the ones (my mom and I) who had our head down. My brothers would be dashing around, throwing sticks into the water and depending on weather and temperature, wading out to their knees. We seldom went further out than our knees because of the sneaker waves.

Get caught by one of those and you could be toppled into the water and pulled out to sea. We were and I still am in awe of the power of the ocean.

Judith Ashley said...

Deb, of the 50 states, I imagine the coastline of Maine is similar in places to the rocky shores we have here in Oregon. We do have some "walking beaches" that I see as boring...however, a boring walking beach is better than no beach!

It is one of the blessings of living where I do. I'm less than two hours to the coast and about that to the snow. Plus I can see Mt. Hood from my upstairs window in winter or along the Sacramento Ridge a couple of blocks from my house.

Melissa Yi said...

I can totally see myself running in for agates too. My husband shakes his head because sometimes I lack common sense about it and may well end up with a headstone like "Here lies Melissa. She loved rocks a little too much." :)

Judith Ashley said...

Melissa, thanks for stopping by and commenting. Beach combing for agates or other pretty rocks is one addiction I have. The other is rock shops. I've yet to go in one and not purchase something. "Here lies Judith, who never wanted to see a homeless rock."

My answer is to not go in the shops anymore. I have no willpower when it comes to look only.