Showing posts with label #enneagram. Show all posts
Showing posts with label #enneagram. Show all posts

Tuesday, May 9, 2023

Love Potion Number 9 by Eleri Grace

 I was momentarily stumped by this month's prompt until I remembered Enneagram. At first glance through the top-level Enneagram traits, I was convinced I would be a 1 -- I'm ambitious, a type A over-achiever, and prefer structure and order. No one loves a run to Container Store more than me!  I also thought I might be a 5 -- I'm a bookworm and brainiac, an investigator, and I place a high premium on knowledge. Imagine my surprise when Enneagram assessments -- over and over again -- told me I am a . . . . 9.  A what? 

Despite my initial skepticism (and indulging my perfectionistic type 1 motivation to take multiple versions), it turns out 9 is exactly me. 

Yet that isn't the end of the story. I was still convinced that I had so many qualities of a 1 and a 5 that I continued to explore Enneagram. I happily discovered that each type does commonly have a "wing" that is one of the adjacent numbers to your primary Enneagram number. So as a 9, I could either be a 9 wing 1 (9w1) or a 9 wing 8 (9w8). Well that was definitely clear-cut, because I am certainly no 8. 

But how about that 5 element that I was so sure I also had? Well, your Tritype is another way of delving more into Enneagram. The Tritype theory, in short, posits that each person has 3 types -- one of the heart types (2, 3 or 4), one of the head types (5, 6 or 7) and one of the gut types (8, 9, and 1). Typically, your primary type remains the first number in the Tritype -- it's your go-to innate response. There are free assessments online that can give you a Tritype reading -- mine is 954 (which can be expressed as 459, 495, 549, 594 or 945 as well) and has been named the "Contemplative" tritype. So I will typically respond with a gut response (9), then go to my head (5), and finally my heart (4). 

I love Enneagram insights for my own personal development and self-understanding, but I've also been using it in character development too. Mining their Enneagrams is a solid way to add more depth to your characters, particularly their goals, motivations and conflicts. 


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Tuesday, September 8, 2020

Enneagram: An Author's Roadmap Back to Creativity by Eleri Grace

 

A familiar theme in many of our blogs is coping with the weight of anxiety, exhaustion, and fear that permeates our daily lives in these extraordinary times. Last December, I doubt many of us could imagine we would find the September prompt of “Hope” to be so challenging. As I’ve alluded in several of my blogs this year, I’ve found it very difficult to tap into my creative well of late. In using last month’s post as a template, I see that I made a brash pronouncement that I was committing to meeting 1,000 words a day on my next novel. <insert maniacal laughter> But I also, it should be said, gave myself permission to allow the next story to bloom at its own pace. And while I don’t have 30,000 words in the manuscript, I am now going to circle back to our hope theme for the month, for what I do have to show for last month’s work is a roadmap of hope and redemption for my characters -- and perhaps myself.

            I have long been interested in the Myers-Briggs personality typing and have called on it to help flesh out my heroes and heroines. I use it, along with Holland codes and similar career exploration tests, in my college consulting business. So despite already being a bit of a Personality Junkie (a dangerous thing perhaps with no background in psychology!), I hadn’t used Enneagram at all. Each time I looked at it, I grew flustered with trying to settle on one primary Enneagram type. I got different results with every online test I took: one even gave me 98% each on 3 different types! But a conversation with a family member last month sparked me to explore it more. 


            After devoting no small amount of time to studying it and its more advanced principles of interaction and growth (wings, instinctual subtypes, tritypes, stress and growth lines) this month, I am fascinated. Fascinated and full of optimism – and dare I say hope -- for how to put it to work in my novels to create full and vibrant emotional journeys for my characters. Enneagram is a tool for personal growth and for expanding how one interacts with others, but it also provides the perfect tools for authors who might want to anticipate (plot!) and understand how characters will respond to conflict and how they can authentically achieve the growth necessary to reach their healthiest emotional state -- how to live their best life in other words. The historical details for my novels always come easily, but creating the internal journey for each character has always been more difficult for me. I think I've finally found the best tool to allow me to more easily approach that part of the process. 

            I created Pinterest boards for Enneagram and MBTI and was able to use my pinned resources to plot a solid emotional arc for both my hero and heroine (of course, I will confess it took many days of rumination for me to settle on their primary type, wing, and tritype -- ha!). So I am, after all, full of renewed hope in my creative path for the coming months.

            Anticipating the question: I am a Type 9 (the Peacemaker), with Wing 1 (so 9w1), and my Tritype is 9-5-4 (Peacemaker – Investigator – Individualist). The Tritype, incidentally, was the discovery that helped me the most, as it was one explanation for why I had such a tough time settling on a primary type. As an introverted bookworm with an analytical bent, I have strong Type 5 attributes. My primary type is, however, the peaceful and calm Type 9. 

I hope this inspires our authors to consider Enneagram, MBTI or other fun personality tests as part of the character development process, and for all of us -- readers and authors alike -- it can be an insightful tool for personal development and growth.  Stay healthy and HOPEFUL!