Showing posts with label challenges. Show all posts
Showing posts with label challenges. Show all posts

Tuesday, August 15, 2023

Assessing the Year...Past the Midpoint ... by Delsora Lowe


I am obsessive about setting writing and writer-related goals every year. And for every year I have done so, I have made or surpassed my goals in most areas. I am predictably bad at keeping up on social media and my website. But I always make my writing word count for the year, including a high level (for me) writing goal for every February, when I join the New Jersey Romance Writer’s 30K challenge.

That’s right, thirty thousand words in twenty-eight days. We check in daily with our goals on a special loop and cheer each other on. It’s inspiring, but also, it’s the competition that drives me. Now, everyone who knows me well understands I am the least athletic person, and definitely not competitive. But for some reason, this competition calls to me. Not because I am trying to one-up others, but because I am trying to one-up myself by achieving a higher word count over the previous year. Plus, we get this cool virtual badge, AND… drum roll, a super cool pin. Okay, I know the word cool is not actually COOL anymore, but hey, I’m a 60s gal—the decade of my formative pre-teen and teen years.

This year, as we are now officially over the mid-point, and in reality, only have five months left to meet 2023 goal expectations, I must confess, I threw away—okay, a bit dramatic—I set aside purposely, my 2023 writing goals, which included finishing (this spring) my final edits on my third book in the Cowboys of Mineral Springs series. Instead, I took up a challenge for me—writing a legacy piece for not only myself, but to give to my two children for the holidays this year.

I figured easy-peasy, since it was based on ideas from the book, Elderwriters: Celebrate Your Life, by Sue Barocas, which encourages creative pieces about aspects of your life, lists of favorites, a bit about family, life’s motivations, etc. The author is free to write in any creative genre, including poetry, lists, essays, etc. It is not a linear telling of your life, but based on memories, important events, and any other topics and methods the writer wishes to employ. For example, I did a piece on my travels as a kid that took my family to Hong Kong, the far east, then up through the Suez, and on to European and African locations. Another piece focused on memories of historical events in my lifetime, such as where I was when I learned JFK had been assassinated in Dallas. The project was sponsored by Midcoast Literacy through People Plus, (a local activities center for 55 and over,) and I worked with a Bowdoin student intern who helped guide the project.

I wrote free-flowing poems. One was about my love of jazz and an intimate venue I used to go to on Sunday afternoons in Washington, D.C. to listen to local jazz musicians, including my former high school English teacher who is a drummer. He’s only about ten plus years older than me. And to say the entire female population of upper school wasn’t in crush mode way back when, is an understatement. But during my more seasoned years, when I went back to work at my old school in the early 2000’s, he and his wife became good friends of mine. I also wrote a free-flowing ode to my grand-pets, and an ode to embracing my curls (a polite way of referring to my frizzy hair, inherited from my dad’s side of the family.) I wrote essays of wisdom I learned from my grandmother, and memories of my mom’s best friend who was like a mother to me, honoring her support and wonderful meals over the years.

I did extensive research on my father’s family. Luckily, on my mom’s side there is an entire 424-page volume tracing our family back to the first settlers from Scotland in 1772, and reference to the famous Mohawk Indian Chief, Joseph Brant, who had been befriended by my great, great, great, great, great grandparents, John and Betty More, during the Revolutionary War period. He warned them of an impending raid, and they and their eight children were able to escape. I am related to the seventh child, David. So, without the help of the Chief, I wouldn’t be here today.

I also wrote a lovely piece about my Aunt Virginia, married to my mom’s older brother, John. She was a WASP (Women Airforce Service Pilot,) during WWII as a civilian ferry pilot, and was one of the first women to ever pilot planes for the US military. She is now part of an exhibit for the Air and Space Museum, part of the Smithsonian. In her later years she was a founding member of Veterans for Peace, founded in Maine in 1985, and helped get recognition for their contribution, in order to receive military benefits for the WASPs or their families, as many died in the line of duty. Uncle John, too, served in the war, and although never verified, we surmise from his knowledge of several languages and his assigned posts, that he may have done a bit of spying.

So, back to goals, and the reason for my procrastination. I have revised my goals. After taking time to breath for the last few weeks of July, while family visited and I refused to open my computer for a week, I am now thinking about finishing my final edits of Rescuing the Sheriff, and thinking about booking my editor for two rounds of edits, working with my cover artist, and writing the dreaded back cover copy, and refining the blurb in order to upload to various sales venues. And... And... And...I may be a bit late in releasing, since I had hoped to get this book and another book out this year. The good news is, I actually wrote a draft of a blurb and tag lines for the second book. Life happens…and I have decided to not obsess about missing my self-imposed 2023 timelines. Plus, I am still on-track with my annual word count goal, and I have released print versions of two e-books released in the last two years. And…drum roll…I still have four-and-a-half months to catch up.


Do you set annual goals?
And do you stress over meeting them?
Or do you readjust during the year?




~ cottages to cabins ~ keep the home fires burning ~

Delsora Lowe writes small town sweet and spicy romances and contemporary westerns, from the mountains of Colorado to the shores of Maine.

Author of the Starlight Grille series, Serenity Harbor Maine novellas, and the Cowboys of Mineral Springs series, Lowe has also authored short romances for Woman’s World magazine. The Love Left Behind is a Hartford Estates, R.I. wedding novella. A Christmas novel (The Inn at Gooseneck Lane) and novella (Holiday Hitchhiker) were released in late fall 2022. Look for book 3 of the cowboy’s series, as well as book 2 of the Hartford Estates series, in 2024.

 

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Tuesday, March 15, 2022

Happy New Year, Spring – Seasons and Stories … Delsora Lowe

For some reason, for me, both spring and fall always seem like the start of a new year. The changing seasons equate to changes in our lives.

In my mind, summer seems to drift into fall, and winter seems to drift into spring. Like the tides, winter teases us by splashing up on the shores of spring. Just when we dip our toes at the edge of spring warmth, the tide surges. Cold rushes back in. We wait with anticipation for a quick retreat, so we can feel the warm sand between our toes and walk the beach without hugging ourselves against a strong cold wind.



Winter storms wreak havoc on the spring we hoped had finally arrived. Little green shoots, a symbol of rebirth and growth and new beginnings, end up covered in that cold, white fluff. And all our hopes are dashed, until the sun returns from behind storm clouds and gives us a taste of a resurrection of sorts.


This whole process reminds me of writing a story. As many of you know, writers are supposed to “torture” their characters. That means throwing challenges in the way of the both the hero and heroine, to make it harder for each to achieve dreams of falling in love. And achieving one by one the steps in between dreaming of love, finding the one person that may have potential to be the one, and then assuring that you are worthy of winning and keeping that love.

Think how boring stories would be if everyone was perfect and got along and achieved their dreams with no effort. Actually, as much as I hate conflict, I have to admit life, in general, would be boring if we didn’t have to challenge ourselves.

And the same would hold true if we had no change of season. No heat that gave away to beautiful, sunny, cool days and colorful leaves. No bare trees that gave us a clearer view on now vivid blue, fall into winter skies. No blanketing of that white stuff (that yes, we have to shovel,) but when it falls it brings with it a serene blanket to makes us feel cozy and warm (as long as the heat works or a fireplace is roaring.) No retreating of layers of snow and ice, to expose a brown lawn that will soon turn green and lush and sprout a few weedy, yellow dandelions to add new color to our world. No cool nights moving in on still warm, but not too hot, days.

Trees turning from a continuum of green to an array of colors: yellow, orange, red, purple. And then the winds pour in and rip the leaves from branches to scatter them about. The green lawns are covered in those leaves, which we rake into piles, and watch dogs run through them, or kids jump into them until they are covered in a soft blanket provided by nature. And just when the landscape is brown and boring, the snow returns to blanket us in pristine white.

Giving our characters, challenges, tests, reasons to second guess their view of the world, a need to ditch a plan and devise another to solve a problem—all those things make our characters and stories interesting. Just as the change of season both challenge us and give comfort, our characters, too, need challenges to make the reward at the end—LOVE— that much more precious.

So, looking at the change of season as part of the continuum that leads to a new year, keeps us on our toes, gives us new challenges, and brings new delight.

Happy New Year, Spring!

Disclaimer: this opinion piece is written from the point of view of someone who lives in the Northeast in the USA. And yes, I face challenges, in that in the dead of winter, I do wish I could travel to visit my friends in the south. And in the heat of summer, I wish I could cross the border and travel to the northern part of Canada. Here’s to embracing challenges and what we learn from them.

What is your favorite season?

 
The Legacy of Parkers Point

Starlight Grille ~ Book 1

Two lives, one legacy—the lure of Parkers Point

One Runs From …

Inheriting his grandfather’s estate on the rocky point in Serenity Harbor, Maine is the perfect escape from the biggest professional disaster of Grayson Mann’s life. Will distance and space help Gray heal old family and professional wounds enough to open his heart to love?

One Runs Toward …

Lauralee Adler struggles to save the family art gallery as she watches her aunt succumb to Alzheimer’s. Returning to the small coastal town is payment for the kindness that saved her life and soul. Now she’s on a quest to find her father. Will this trip home help her learn to trust and finally convince her she can truly belong for the first time in her life?

Amazon

https://www.amazon.com/Legacy-Parkers-Point-Serenity-Starlight-ebook/dp/B0743NVCC6/

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~ cottages to cabins ~ keep the home fires burning ~

Delsora Lowe writes small town sweet and spicy romances and contemporary westerns from the mountains of Colorado to the shores of Maine.

Author of the Starlight Grille series, Serenity Harbor Maine novellas, and the Cowboys of Mineral Springs series, Lowe has also authored short romances for Woman’s World magazine. Her new novella, The Love Left Behind, will release in late fall, 2020.

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Tuesday, April 21, 2020

Favorite AND Most Challenging First in Writing ... by Delsora Lowe


I have a first book ever written (2001), along with many written full manuscripts, still sitting under my bed. But my first book to be published was The Legacy of Parkers Point, released in 2016. My novella, published in an anthology (Welcome to Serenity Harbor), was part of a compilation of novellas by members of the Maine Romance Writers. As one of the project managers on this project, I learned a ton.

The excitement of publishing a first book is beyond description.


When the anthology ran its course in early 2017, and we all received back our rights, I was soon able to experience new excitement. I republished the novella as my first indie-published book. I did the soup to nuts work, same as we did on the anthology: re-editing with a professional editor, working with a cover artist and a formatter, and promoting my “first-born,” as I did the same for two more newly written novellas that would make up the series. The three books, published individually, came out as the Starlight Grille series over the months during the fall of 2017. And then the three were published as a collection with a new short story added in 2018. Scary but exciting, for sure!


The learnings from being one of the project managers on the anthology were expanded as I indie-published The Legacy of Parkers Point and the other two books in 2017. Each book I put out has its own excitement. But that first book—there are no words to describe the feeling.Following is a blog, originally published here on Romancing the Genres (and updated), about my experience as the co-manager of the anthology. The book that kicked off and catapulted me into published-author territory.

Working on an anthology is an entirely different beast. Think Beauty and the Beast. You start out with a quarrelsome, growly, domineering chunk of words that need to be tamed into one cohesive book.

Picture this: Beauty dreaming of finding her hero. Every August the Maine Romance Writers partake in a brainstorming retreat. Okay, so it’s like a huge slumber party. We arrive with sleeping bags and pillows and laptops and snacks (salty and savory) and wine. Did I mention laptops? Yes, we do work. We spend all day either brainstorming our next story in small groups, or sitting on the deck or down by the lake writing on our current work. We break every few hours to exchange writing tips, eat, or take a boat ride around the lake. Oh, and sip wine 😊

Two years ago, we sat on the deck, sated with food and talk and wine (just a little <WINK>,) with the sound of loons on the lake and the full moon arrowing a golden path across the lake and right up on the shoreline in front of us. The setting was one of those perfect end-of-summer evenings.

Our host suggested we might like to try writing an anthology. Within minutes we’d created a town, brainstormed names of the town, set a few guidelines, and we were off and running…

Or so we thought.


The reality is the work we did that night was Beauty’s fantasy. Then the Beast appeared. All the details of actually putting together an anthology. The writing was the easy part—Beauty’s fantasy. Managing a project, was the roaring and untamable Beast.


I am happy to say we did finally tame the beast, and named it Welcome to Serenity Harbor. Beauty and the Beast are now living happily ever after. But as with all good marriages or committed relationships, one must open their eyes, negotiate, persevere over the hurdles, and make a strong commitment to reach that Happily Ever After.

As one of two project managers, working with a group of six committee members and all the authors who were excited about the project, here are the things I learned: (caveat, not all anthologies revolve around a town, like ours did. Some have a theme. Some are made up of a group of authors and there are no rules around story content.)

The following are my suggestions from the experience of working on the anthology, but most of this can also relate to individual works

♥ Map out the project, and plot exactly what the project will look like.

·         Set rules, such as genre of anthology (ours was contemporary), length (we chose short novellas, 15 – 25K words).

·         Write a contract. Include costs, such as professional editor for each work, (authors absorbed that cost), due date of manuscript, anticipated release date, budget (cost of formatter, cover artist, and promotion, for which we shared cost), and production timeline.

·         Determine as a group, parameters around the theme (story bible,) such as name and details of town that all authors will set their story in, name of overall anthology, type of promotion, voting on book cover design, etc.

♥ Research

·         What anthologies are being sold now, how are they set up, etc.

·         Talk to other authors in anthologies to understand their process.

·         Find professionals, editors, formatters, cover artists, etc.

♥ Communicate

·         As a committee, agree on the process.

·         Communicate with all authors each step of the way.

·         Vote on any spending.

♥ Evaluate at the end. Our learnings included:

·         Make sure you factor in realistic expenses, such as copyediting and project manager costs up front.

·         Set deadlines and stick to them.

·         Hire a copy editor, and have one person, not an author related to the anthology, determine if the book fits the criteria and is edited properly

♥ Make it your own

·         One fun thing we did, was to insert the mention of a sheep into each story. Look at the back cover and you will see a rendering of a sheep that says “find me,” designed by one of our authors.

Although, as a group we bumbled our way through the process, for me it was an incredible experience of teamwork and learning about self-publishing. And although the Beast still growls once in a while, the Beast is also loving and tamed. And he and Beauty are living happily ever after.


Although the idea was conceived at our brainstorming retreat, the book is not a product of the Maine Romance Writers, but of a group of writers, some members from out of state, whose bond is through MRW.

Now that it has been several years since we took on this project, I can look back on the process with clarity. This project was indeed hard. One of the hardest things I’ve ever tried, starting from scratch, and learning along the way. Despite the intense undertaking, I learned so much and gained the confidence to go on and publish more books, and for that I am grateful.

 

The Rancher Needs a Wife


https://www.amazon.com/Rancher-Needs-Cowboys-Mineral-Springs-ebook/dp/B07YXB5C4W/




~ cottages to cabins ~ keep the home fires burning ~

Delsora Lowe writes small town sweet romances and contemporary westerns from the mountains of Colorado to the shores of Maine.
Author of the Starlight Grille series, Serenity Harbor Maine novellas, and the Cowboys of Mineral Springs series, Lowe has also authored short romances for Woman’s World magazine.


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