07-21-18 Patricia Sargeant

Wednesday, October 5, 2011

What’s the best thing about blogging? That’s easy. No rejections.

You get nice friendly comments—supportive people saying encouraging things. No emails with the core message: “…Thank you for your submission…blah, blah, blah…but we don’t want your stinking stuff.” Okay, so I didn’t quote the message verbatim, but I’ve become adept at reading between the RTF boilerplate. Some agent or editor didn’t want my stuff—stinking or not.

Blogging provides wonderful, positive reinforcement—a world wide (or www anyway) community of people who understand, who get you. But there’s a downside to all these good vibes.

“Are you nuts?” you ask. “Do you prefer abuse?”

“Maybe if I explain my process for dealing with rejection, you’ll agree those negative responses aren’t so bad. Typically my methods of dealing with rejection include:

a) Eating a pint of Ben and Jerry’s
b) Eating a pint of Ben and Jerry’s—without a spoon
c) Molding a pint of Ben and Jerry’s into the shape of the rejecter’s head, scalding it with hot fudge, and then eating it
d) Molding a pint of Ben and Jerry’s into the shape of the rejecter’s mouse pad, deep frying it in a vat of oil, and eating it with Oreos
e) Printing the rejection, folding the paper to create an origami rifle and using the darn thing to hold up the Ben and Jerry’s truck.

Joking aside, blogging with the Genre-istas has been an amazing experience. Primarily because you—the reader—are listening to us, talking to us, riding the genre train with us. Really listening is one of the greatest gifts you can give, so I really appreciate the opportunity to be heard. Thank you for allowing us into your cyberspace.

This month, I’m giving you permission to do something different. Go ahead, blast my post. Tell me I’m full of…B&J. ‘Cause this post has made me hungry.


ElaineCharton said...

I LOVE IT!!!The Perfect post to start my day.

Paty Jager said...

Fun post! I agree, blogging is an ego boost!

Judith Ashley said...

Wow, Robin - I think your 'thing' with B&J matches mine for Moonstruck Chocolate and/or Baskin and Robins' Jamoca (no, not Jamoca Almond Fudge - plain Jamoca with my own nuts and chocolate sauce and whipped cream).

Maybe I need to submit more!

Sarah Raplee said...

lol, Robin. All so true!

Am I sensing a recent rejection? As I learned in Telemarketing School (yes, briefly, I was One of Them), each 'no' is one step closer to 'yes.'

Tam Linsey said...

I especially like e. That way you work off a few cslories getting the B&J.
Now I'm hungry too. And no ice cream in the house :(