by Courtney Pierce
I don’t think we Baby Boomers ever really retire. The word is unthinkable and should be banished from the English language. It insinuates that we’re replaceable―washed-up―and are willing to be pushed aside. To better characterize our true nature, why not use descriptors like reach, realize, and reap?
I can’t speak for all of us, but as I sunset a two-decade-and-change corporate career, I feel as though I’m just getting started. My husband and I are less than five years away from that magical time to call our own shots, answer to no one, and eat breakfast for dinner. We can’t wait.
Our idea of retirement isn’t strolling on a golf course or gossiping over five o’clock highballs at a
clubhouse. Instead, we’ve chosen to make a rural sanctuary for ourselves among the mountains and lakes. It will be our home base for backpacking, fishing, camping . . . and yes . . . hunting. To weather the winter, we’ll need meat in the freezer and jarred vegetables from our garden. We’ll remain fit and active, with an array of wild animals (including black bears) to provide new inspiration to write. Our private acre on the lake in Montana is now a reality, if only for vacations until we retire in earnest.
Before the sun rises we’ll launch the canoe, two thermoses of strong Joe set in the bow. “Let’s go catch breakfast,” I’ll say.
“Trout, bass, or pike?” he’ll whisper, to not scare the fish.
“Rainbows. Pan-fried with your special seasoning.”
“Done. Get in.”
And since we’re still newlyweds, I’ll give him my most mischievous grin. “But I think I’ve already caught my fish.”
He’ll throw me a wink. “Can’t throw me back, especially before a nap.”
And then we’ll shove off, the bow like a feather cutting a delicate tear on the water's skin. To tease us, the only sounds in those early morning hours will be random splashes of fish breaking the surface.
In some ways we’ll work harder in retirement than in our current day jobs. Personal productivity will be on the line, along with our sense of self-worth and the compulsion to make a difference in the lives of others. We certainly don’t need to buy any more stuff. Geez! We have two lifetimes worth of stuff.
But with all that dreaming comes an important responsibility that scares the heck out of me. Our health . . . so strong, yet so fragile.
Not that I’m a Negative Nancy or anything, but stuff does happen. One of the realities of retirement is that our bodies aren’t as resilient as they used to be, nor are our steps as assured, quick, or squarely placed as they once were. Knees click and crack until they're warmed up. A twisted ankle might be a Simple Twist of Fate, rendering us unable to go on (I'm certain Bob Dylan had a different meaning in mind for that title),
While we eat healthy and maintain our weight, what if one of us has chest pain or breaks a hip on the hiking trail? It could happen. A health crisis could seriously undermine our plans. The nearest hospital will be 20-minutes away, and on the trails we’d require a Life Flight to get help. I do think some of us become more risk adverse as we age, while others throw caution to the wind. We fit into the latter. I'd rather us get hurt doing what we love. Why the heck not? What do we have to lose?
Coming into the home stretch is both thrilling and scary. We can’t turn back time to fix all our stupid mistakes, but we can certainly start over with a fresh perspective. We've got one last shot to make our dreams of youth a reality, right? In the meantime, we’ll slip some old vinyl on the turntable to reset our mood.
Crosby, Stills, Nash, and Young anyone?
|Photo: Loma Smith|
Courtney Pierce is a fiction writer living in Milwaukie, Oregon, with her new family. She writes for baby boomers. By day, Courtney is an executive in the entertainment industry and uses her time in a theater seat to create stories that are filled with heart, humor and mystery. She has studied craft and storytelling at the Attic Institute and has completed the Hawthorne Fellows Program for writing and publishing. Active in the writing community, she is a board member of the Northwest Independent Writers Association and on the Advisory Council of the Independent Resource Center. She is a member of Willamette Writers Pacific Northwest Writers Association, and She Writes. The Executrix received the Library Journal Self-E recommendation seal.
Check out all of Courtney's books at:
courtney-pierce.com and windtreepress.com. Both print and E-books are available through most major online retailers, including Amazon.com
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