Wednesday, May 17, 2023

The Writing Journey!

 By : Linda Conrad

Hi Everyone!  Nice to be invited here.  Thanks!

        I gave a group of writers advice once that all it took to make it in this business was hard work, persistence, and a little luck.  No one wanted to hear that. Newbies want the “secret” to publishing.  But since then, I have changed my mind. Oh, it still takes lots of hard work and persistence. There is no magic secret. But I have come to the conclusion that you can make your own luck. The one thing I learned over the years is that making friends in the business: other authors whom you trust to critique you, people you meet at conferences and meetings, and many others who just make you happy that you are a writer are the real “luck” for anyone who wants to become a best seller.

            I started to write soon after my mother passed away nearly thirty years ago. She’d reminded me that I had always wanted to write and that I made up terrific stories. It took me several years to grieve and then to figure out what I wanted to write. Did I want to write non-fiction? No. Not me.  Then what about those stories?  Mysteries? Romance?  I joined a local romance writers’ group and never looked back. 

            It took several years of hard work and going to classes, conferences, and just talking to the people I met for me to come up with my first best seller.  It’s still selling around the world twenty years later, by the way.

 


With Heather Graham (QA with her on the 24th via Zoom)

            Along my road to success, I watched others and learned.  I saw writers who wrote book after book for many years before they hit the right one. I was impressed with their persistence and patience.  And I learned from it.  I also tentatively started wonderful  relationships with fellow writers, some of whom have become lifelong friends.

 

            Good writers of fiction are good listeners. They observe the world and people around them. That’s how they write characters that seem like real people.  That’s also how I made my own luck.  I listened to other authors and editors. I saw people who seemed to be “at the right place at the right time.”  But it turns out that they were at that place (or their book was there) because another author had paved the way, or suggested it, or pushed them to write the best they could.



            The other thing good writers do is learn to accept editing of their precious words. I have watched other writers suffer over that one. The story should be an author’s main concern, but how it’s told is the trick. Writing, writing, writing makes you better. But working with good critique partners and good editors can make you the best.

 

            So, I always try to thank all the people who helped and pushed me along the way.  They are invaluable.  Writing is a wonderful vocation and avocation. Writing stories can soothe your soul.  But it’s the people you meet, other writers, editors, even readers who make this the best way to spend your life.




5 comments:

Judith Ashley said...

Linda, I totally agree about the friendships. I do have a couple of long time friends (like almost 50 years or so) and the ones I've met since writing (late 1990's) are definitely valued. I'd never thought I could make friends with people I didn't spend a lot of time with. I've found that within the writing community that isn't true. I have friends I've met through Romancing The Genres in Australia, across the US and in Canada and England. My life is much richer because I write.

Linda Conrad said...

Exactly Judith. The people who write are very special. I'm so glad you found that out, too.

Marcia King-Gamble said...

I would never have met you had we not experienced this writing journey together. You were a wonderful critique partner who spoke your truth. I appreciated every constructive word, not to mention, we developed a friendship that has survived many years and life experiences. Your wonderful books will live on.

Carol Stephenson said...

Loved our critique meetings and all the good but constructive times we had.

Anonymous said...

Thanks Carol. You wrote wonderful stories. Keep going!