I am obsessive about setting writing and writer-related goals
every year. And for every year I have done so, I have made or surpassed my
goals in most areas. I am predictably bad at keeping up on social media and my
website. But I always make my writing word count for the year, including a high
level (for me) writing goal for every February, when I join the New Jersey
Romance Writer’s 30K challenge.
That’s right, thirty thousand words in twenty-eight days. We
check in daily with our goals on a special loop and cheer each other on. It’s
inspiring, but also, it’s the competition that drives me. Now, everyone who
knows me well understands I am the least athletic person, and definitely not
competitive. But for some reason, this competition calls to me. Not because I
am trying to one-up others, but because I am trying to one-up myself by
achieving a higher word count over the previous year. Plus, we get this cool
virtual badge, AND… drum roll, a super cool pin. Okay, I know the word cool is
not actually COOL anymore, but hey, I’m a 60s gal—the decade of my formative
pre-teen and teen years.
This year, as we are now officially over the mid-point, and
in reality, only have five months left to meet 2023 goal expectations, I must
confess, I threw away—okay, a bit dramatic—I set aside purposely, my 2023
writing goals, which included finishing (this spring) my final edits on my
third book in the Cowboys of Mineral Springs series. Instead, I took up
a challenge for me—writing a legacy piece for not only myself, but to give to
my two children for the holidays this year.
I figured easy-peasy, since it was based on ideas from the
book, Elderwriters: Celebrate Your Life, by Sue Barocas, which
encourages creative pieces about aspects of your life, lists of favorites, a
bit about family, life’s motivations, etc. The author is free to write in any
creative genre, including poetry, lists, essays, etc. It is not a linear
telling of your life, but based on memories, important events, and any other topics
and methods the writer wishes to employ. For example, I did a piece on my travels as a
kid that took my family to Hong Kong, the far east, then up through the Suez, and on to European and
African locations. Another piece focused on memories of historical events in my
lifetime, such as where I was when I learned JFK had been assassinated in Dallas.
The project was sponsored by Midcoast Literacy through People Plus, (a local
activities center for 55 and over,) and I worked with a Bowdoin student intern who
helped guide the project.
I wrote free-flowing poems. One was about my love of jazz
and an intimate venue I used to go to on Sunday afternoons in Washington, D.C.
to listen to local jazz musicians, including my former high school English
teacher who is a drummer. He’s only about ten plus years older than me. And to
say the entire female population of upper school wasn’t in crush mode way back
when, is an understatement. But during my more seasoned years, when I went back
to work at my old school in the early 2000’s, he and his wife became good
friends of mine. I also wrote a free-flowing ode to my grand-pets, and an ode
to embracing my curls (a polite way of referring to my frizzy hair, inherited
from my dad’s side of the family.) I wrote essays of wisdom I learned from my
grandmother, and memories of my mom’s best friend who was like a mother to me,
honoring her support and wonderful meals over the years.
I did extensive research on my father’s family. Luckily, on
my mom’s side there is an entire 424-page volume tracing our family back to the
first settlers from Scotland in 1772, and reference to the famous Mohawk Indian
Chief, Joseph Brant, who had been befriended by my great, great, great, great,
great grandparents, John and Betty More, during the Revolutionary War period.
He warned them of an impending raid, and they and their eight children were
able to escape. I am related to the seventh child, David. So, without the help
of the Chief, I wouldn’t be here today.
I also wrote a lovely piece about my Aunt Virginia, married
to my mom’s older brother, John. She was a WASP (Women Airforce Service Pilot,)
during WWII as a civilian ferry pilot, and was one of the first women to ever
pilot planes for the US military. She is now part of an exhibit for the Air and
Space Museum, part of the Smithsonian. In her later years she was a founding
member of Veterans for Peace, founded in Maine in 1985, and helped get recognition
for their contribution, in order to receive military benefits for the WASPs or
their families, as many died in the line of duty. Uncle John, too, served in the
war, and although never verified, we surmise from his knowledge of several
languages and his assigned posts, that he may have done a bit of spying.
So, back to goals, and the reason for my procrastination. I
have revised my goals. After taking time to breath for the last few weeks of
July, while family visited and I refused to open my computer for a week, I am
now thinking about finishing my final edits of Rescuing the
Sheriff, and thinking about booking my editor for two
rounds of edits, working with my cover artist, and writing the dreaded back
cover copy, and refining the blurb in order to upload to various sales venues. And... And... And...I
may be a bit late in releasing, since I had hoped to get this book and another
book out this year. The good news is, I actually wrote a draft of a blurb and
tag lines for the second book. Life happens…and I have decided to not obsess
about missing my self-imposed 2023 timelines. Plus, I am still on-track with my
annual word count goal, and I have released print versions of two e-books
released in the last two years. And…drum roll…I still have four-and-a-half
months to catch up.
Do you set
annual goals?
And do you stress over meeting them?
Or do you readjust during the year?
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5 comments:
Delsora, this is the first year I've not set a word or publishing goal regarding books. I did set a goal to self-narrate my non-fiction "Staying Sane in a Crazy World". My writing goal is around blog posts. 12 for Romancing The Genre; 4 for Windtree Press. I've written 2 for WP and 8 for RTG. I have the possibility of getting the blog posts written as well as the audio book.
I'd be surprised if your Legacy Project book isn't more valued than the 424 page book.
I really enjoyed your blog post.
Because of you talking about the Legacy project I bought 2 booksat B & Noble, "My Mother's Life" and "Tell your Story, Writing Prompts to Inspire". One of my new goals for this year is to begin filling out "My Mother's Life" for my kids.
You are a true inspiration and I'm glad we are friends!
That Legacy project is a very worthy way to spend time. It's a goal in itself, as it will be treasured by not only your kids, but your grandkids and beyond. I had to give up on yearly goals a long time ago, when my brain fog interfered with what I could do in any given year. I applaud your ability to get things done!
Delsora, your legacy project is worth getting behind on your other goals--good of you! May the rest of the year be a great one!
Interesting post, Delsora. What a great gift to your descendants!!!
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