Showing posts with label #smalltownromance #laterinliferomance. Show all posts
Showing posts with label #smalltownromance #laterinliferomance. Show all posts

Thursday, June 23, 2022

Small town or big city...setting sets the tone of my books

 I live in a small town.

A really small town.

Like, an everyone-knows-everyone-else small town.

And I have to admit, it has its upsides and downsides. The upside is everyone knows one another and looks out for one another. The downside is...everyone knows one another and the nosiness factor is HUGE! I used to tell my daughter she couldn't sneeze in school without four people calling me and telling me she was sick. And those 4 people didn't work at the school.

I grew up in New York City. Can't get any more big-city than that, can ya? LOL.

The move from big city to small town was jarring to me at first. I'd never had people actually stop me on the street before and ask after my husband, my daughter, my dog. And I'll admit, I guarded my privacy like it was the crown jewels at first, not giving an inch of information. Over time I grew less stringent and more relaxed. The nosiness was, for the most part, just the townfolk's way of showing they cared.

It's no wonder when I started writing romance I set all my original books in a small town. 

Using a smalltown for a setting in a romance novel allows you to write across all spectrums - from ultra serious to a romcom. My romances tend toward the romcom-y because my characters are quirky. Remember that old Bob Newhart show set in the small Vermont town Inn - and the cast of unusual characters that revolved in and out of the inn on a daily basis? There were the three "Darryl" brothers; George the inept handyman; the clueless sheriff and the snarky welcome wagon lady. All provided comic relief for Newhart and his wife - two big-city people who'd relocated to the tiny Stratford Inn.

In my own town I've met people who mimic those tv characters to a T. What's that saying about art imitating life? Quirky characters can get lost in a big city. In a small town, they're heralded.

In a big city you may not have the individual and close camaraderie you have in a smaller town, but you do have neighborhoods, ghettos where people of the same mindset live, and you have friends to connect with.

In romance you can write a fabulous meet-cute in a big city you wouldn't be able to someplace smaller. Say two people meet by happenstance during a tour of the Empire State building, or maybe a military widow is visiting Ground Zero and meets her next great love. There's the ballet, the opera, the theater district - all places you don't find in small-town settings. Those places set the tone for your romance book, too. Fast-paced, loud, lively. All things a city is.

Small towns have a slower, more relaxed vibe to them. I was the proverbial fish out of water when I first arrived from NYC to smalltown USA. That scenario alone sets up a great romance story - the fish out of water meets the dyed-in-the-wool small towner. Conflict is inherent in just the meet-cute, never mind the setting!

When I start a new book it's usually the characters I see first in my head. Once I have them figured out I think about the setting. Putting a metropolitan doctor who is used to the treat 'em and street 'em world of an urban emergency room into a rural, backwoods town where many residents don't have running water is a great way to juxtapose that fish-out-of-water scenario. Maybe his nurse is a lifetime local and she has to educate him in the ways of suburban life and medical care.

Or take a world-famous writer who's used to jet plane travel and first-class accommodations and have part of her book tour be in a town famous for nothing other than a huge snow storm a half-century ago and nothing close to a five-star hotel. The owner of the town bookstore is her love interest and right there you've got a champagne vs. beer romance setup. The tiny town is everything she's not used to but everything she comes to love.

Setting is so important to how a writer tells her story. I've written my share of both smalltown loves and big city HEA's. And I don't have a favorite. I simply write where the characters tell me they live...or want to.


Visit Peggy at peggyjaeger.com where she blogs daily about the things in her life that make her say, "What??!!"

Thursday, November 25, 2021

Abbondanza! by Peggy Jaeger

 I grew up in an Irish/Sicilian household - mom was the Irish descendant, step-dad the Sicilian, so whenever I hear the word ABUNDANCE, I hear it the way it was spoken in my home - the Italian way - ABBONDANZA.

It sounds like such a joyous word when said in the language of Da Vinci, no?

I still use it that way to this day when I describe things, like the abbondanza of books I have to read on my kindle. Or the abbondanza of words I need to get written this month to win NaNoWriMo. That's a quantifiable number, too, set at 50k. But still...it's a lot of words!

Quantifying something as abundant or saying it possesses an abundance of...something, can be viewed either negatively or positively. Since this is me writing this, you know I'm going to accentuate the positive.

Hey - wasn't that a song?

My life is blessed with an abbondanza of friends, for which I am most grateful. My grandmother used to tell me if you made one sincere friend in your lifetime you were lucky. I've been lucky hundreds of times, then, if you go by this statement. I also have a huge family courtesy of my husband. As an only child, I always wanted siblings. I got them when I married a man with 5 brothers and sisters and now they fill my life with joy.

I have an abundance of books in my home library and on my kindle that feed my mind, encourage my psyche, and warm my heart. I'm that girl who loves both print and ebook. It doesn't matter which format I read in, just as long as I read.

I have an abundance of novels on my laptop plotted out and just waiting to have an abundance of time to write them!

Since we are entering the Christmas/Holiday season, I will freely admit that I have an OVER abundance of decorations and I'm not even one little bit embarrassed about that. I grew up poor. We rarely had a Christmas tree and when we did my mother could only afford those breakable, lousy-colored balls as decorations. We didn't even have a star on top of the tree. When I went out on my own and started making my own money, every year I bought a few ornaments and decorations and in just a few years I had a full supply. These days that full supply looks more like a hoard!

My husband actually says I have too many ornaments for one tree, which is why I never put up just one tree, but 4-5.

Don't judge.

One thing I will admit and then also state I am a tad embarrassed about is my overabundance of shoes. I have over 200 pairs. Again - don't judge! Carrie Bradshaw had nothin' on me, kids. And I've worn each and every one of them --- at least once.

It's easy to go overboard with material items, but if you'll remember the beginning of this piece, the first thing I mentioned was my abundance of family and friends - the most important of everything.

This holiday season I am wishing you all an abbondanza of health, love, success, and wisdom~

Peg

Oh, and since we're talking about abundance, you can never have too many holiday-themed romances, so check out my newest, FIXING CHRISTMAS. It's on sale right now for only #99cents 

and the prequel, SANTA BABY

Happy Holidays, kids ~ Peg