Hi, I’m Judith Ashley, author of The Sacred Women’s Circle series, soul
nourishing romantic women’s fiction with light paranormal elements. My stories
show you what life could be like if you had a place like The Circle where you
are unconditionally accepted, supported and loved. And where, with this
support, you make choices to overcome the darkest nights and choose love and
light.
Welcome to July! We’re now officially half way
through 2022. If you live south of the equator, your days will begin to get
longer. Here, north of the equator, ours begin to get shorter. Unlike many of
my friends and family, I’m not a summer person. The sun is too bright, the
temperatures are too hot and traffic increases as people head out on vacations.
Not to be too curmudgeonly and because our
monthly theme is Vacation Trips and Bucket Lists, I’m going to share my
favorite trips. I’ve had the pleasure of adding on a few vacation days to more
business oriented trips than taking an actual vacation.
Because of my involvement with The William
Glasser Institute International and Glasser Institute for Choice Theory-US,
I’ve visited places I heard and read about and never dreamed I’d see in person
– both in North American and elsewhere!
Here in the U.S.
I’ve attended conferences in
Houston and San
Antonio, TX;
Copper Mountain and Colorado Springs,
CO;
Boston, MA;
Hollywood and Orlando, FL;
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Vacationed in Cayman Islands after Hollywood, FL Conference where my friend and I went to Hell!
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Kansas City (twice);
Cincinnati, OH;
Chicago, IL,
New Orleans, LA;
Phoenix, AZ,
Albuquerque, NM;
Los Angeles, CA;
Seattle, WA (twice);
Portland, OR;
Jersey City, NJ with views of the New
York skyline and
Philadelphia, PA. Oh and
Nashville, TN in 2010!
One
of both of my granddaughters attended the conferences in italics.
In addition conferences were held in Canada
(Montreal and Vancouver, B.C.). I missed the one in Toronto.
So that’s North America!
Where Else Have I Been?
Dublin, Ireland
Sidney, Australia
Edinburgh, Scotland
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| A typical planting of flowers. This one is in Dublin. |
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| Edinburgh, Scotland |
And as a
bonus, my involvement also ended in 2 trips to the Balkans. Croatia and
Slovenia which meant I spent time in Switzerland and Italy.
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Bled, Slovenia - we spent a few days here to debrief after being ordered to leave Croatia during the Balkan Wars |
What has also
been a blessing is that I’ve had the opportunity to take one or both of my
granddaughters on several of these trips. The Big One was the Edinburgh,
Scotland trip with a week in London and sightseeing (Dover, Stonehenge,
Glastonbury as well as a London tour).
Why did I, at times, take my granddaughters?
Because in the
past, the organization held a “Kids Institute” so the conference was more
family oriented and people could plan a vacation around it. Through the Kids
Institute, my granddaughters had their own adventures while I was in workshops
or giving my own presentation.
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| 2010 at Stonehenge |
They had the opportunity to meet and interact
with kids from around the world (Japan, Korea, Australia, Europe, South America
as well as various parts of the U.S.A.). I believed then and believe now that when
we meet and get to know people from other places in the world, our lives are
enriched and we have an opportunity to see how we are similar, what we have in
common and that creates a positive impact in our lives.
Bucket list? I used to think I wanted
to visit Scandinavia or various places in the Orient. Japan was high on my list
because in 7th and 8th grade I had a Japanese pen pal.
However, at
this point in my life I think my long distance traveling (think international
or at least outside North America) is less likely to happen. It isn’t just
Covid or cost although they are a factor.
I love my
house and my yard. I’m less than 2 hours from the Pacific Ocean although my
favorite spot is closer to 3. I’m about the same distance from Timberline Lodge
on Mt. Hood and only 20 – 30 minutes from the Columbia River Gorge and
waterfalls. A five minute walk and on a clear day I can see Mt. Hood.
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Mt. Hood as seen over the trees on the Rose City Golf Course |
I’m not saying
“never” to long distance traveling. Who knows what the future may bring. What I
am saying is that at this point, as I sit here at my computer with my larch
tree’s limbs blowing in a breeze, the geraniums and salvia adding cheerful
color, the hummingbirds stopping by for a snack, I’ve no particular plans to go
anywhere.
Come fall when
the weather cools and, hopefully, the traffic eases, I may head off on the 2 –
3 hour drive and spend a few days along the Oregon Coast. As I’m rather
weak-willed, the probability of my taking another dozen or so pictures of the
waves crashing on the rocks is high. And I will remind myself of the saying we never stand in the same river…thus
these will be different waves from the multiple thousands if not millions I’ve
watched over the decades.
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Number 1,002,010(?)
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One of the
additional blessing of my trips is creating believable settings in my books.
Much of Elizabeth: The Lady and The Sacred Grove takes place in Ireland. The scene at the Ashford Castle? Yep, I
did stay there in 1994 when I traveled there for the Dublin Conference.
Fremont, OR is
loosely based on my hometown, Portland, OR. The little house you first see in Lily:
The Dragon and The Great Horned Owl
is based on my own home. Some of Diana: The Queen of Swords and The Knight of
Pentacles as well as Gabriella:
Chaos to Symmetry take place in Italy. I spent a short amount of time in
Milan and Venice but over a week along the Aegean Sea in Croatia and Slovenia.
Those views are similar to the ones along the west coast of Italy.The places I’ve
seen, the people I’ve met, the lessons I’ve learned along the pathway of my
life, I’ve used as inspiration and fact in my books.
You can read
my Sacred Women’s Circle series to
learn more about every day women and the struggles and challenges they overcome
to find unconditional love.
My Staying Sane in
a Crazy World, provides
you with a template to create your Personal Staying Sane Plan to help you
through the challenging times.
You can find all of my
books at your favorite e-book vendor. Be sure to ask your local library if
you’d prefer to read my books through that resource.
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Circle series at JudithAshley.net
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