Showing posts with label JudithAshleyRomance. Show all posts
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Friday, January 4, 2019

Best Book(s) I've Read in 2018 by Judith Ashley


Starting off 2019 with a blog post on The Best Book I’ve Read in 2018 has been harder for me than it might appear. All I need to do is write about the book I most remember reading. Right?

However as an author, I write first and read second. There are times, especially at the end of a day at the computer, I don’t really remember the gist of the story or even the author’s name. Another issue is I can get stuck in “editor” mode which means I lose the story because I’m focused on story structure or things like grammar, punctuation, etc.
And then when I try to remember what I’ve read, those fiction books most likely in the romance genre, even though I’ve read at least fifty of them… .
So, I’m throwing all that out the window because there is one book I do clearly remember reading. Non-fiction Verbalize by Damon Suede. Mr. Suede gave a Master Class before the Emerald City Writer’s Conference. He is a dynamic, energized presenter and I’ve always learned something useful to me when I’ve heard him before.
This Master Class did not disappoint. When I learned that his book Verbalize was based almost verbatim on the Class, I snatched it up. Yep, that was me brushing past people in order to grab one of the remaining copies he still had.
If you have a chance to attend a Damon Suede workshop for writers, do. His style is fast paced and that is usually a turn off for me. But, and that’s a big “but” I always come away with something that is a gift to my writer-self.
What were those gifts from his ECWC Master Class?
Gift #1: Being true to myself and what I write. Readers can’t find my books if I don’t clearly tell them what I write. And I write in a sub-genre of romance that isn’t listed on any of the search engine. Pagan Spirituality is a core theme in my books.
Gift #2: Defining myself. A question Mr. Suede asked us had to do with the energy that is our essence. A bit paraphrased the question was what verb describes you? My answer was immediate “teaching.”  At one point in my life I was a public school’s classroom teacher. I’ve a long history of presenting workshops at conferences both national and internationally. I’m on the Senior Teaching Faculty of The William GlasserInstitute – International. And the characters in my stories are always learning something to ease their path to that happily-ever-after. Of course the process of learning isn’t necessarily easy. But where would the joy of overcoming an obstacle be if it was all easy and effortless.
Fiction? In writing Visions of Happiness a character that first shows up in Diana: The Queen of Swords and The Knight of Pentacles actually becomes a recurring character a couple of years earlier in Visions. That fact prompted me to reread all of the original series, rewrite the paragraph or two in Diana to show Ms. Lawford was someone they all knew.

To my delight, I found myself emotionally involved with these seven women. I still laughed and cried along with them and I was the one who’d written their stores and read the drafts more than once!

A fiction reading first for me was Blindsight by Sarah Raplee. Blindsight is a paranormal romantic suspense and not a sub-genre of romance I read. However, I know Sarah and had listened to her talk about writing this book. I can highly recommend Blindsight. Well-written, enough suspense to keep me engaged but not so much I had nightmares. The paranormal elements were well-done and, to me at least, possible.
Another author I read is Paty Jager. I’ve read several of her Shandra Higheagle mysteries and many of her other books. Paty is meticulous in her research which is one fact that draws me to her stories.
And I’m ending this post with a swing back to non-fiction. Maggie Lynch’sAuthor Secrets” series is a Must Read for any author who is independently published or for any author who is struggling with the decision to publish independently. In clear language Ms. Lynch guides authors through the plethora of options and challenges they face to get their books published and to optimize their discoverability and thus their visibility. Ms. Lynch stays abreast of publishing trends and updates readers through her newsletter, blog posts and workshops.
Judith Ashley is the author of The Sacred Women’s Circle series, romantic women’s fiction that honors pagan spiritual practices that nourish the soul. Sacred women’s circles are havens where each of us have the support of the  unconditional acceptance, support and love of the others that sustain us as we overcome obstacles on our life's journey.
Learn more about Judith's The Sacred Women’s Circle series at JudithAshleyRomance.com

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© 2019 Judith Ashley


Friday, March 2, 2018

Getting Lost in A Book or Not


Judith Ashley is the author of The Sacred Women’s Circle series, romantic fiction that honors spiritual traditions that nurture the soul.

Before I made the decision to be indie published, I read blogs and listened to agents and editors talk about what they were looking for in the submissions they read.

Characters that readers would love, root for, identify with. (Yes, I know dangling preposition).

A core story readers could relate to so even if it was paranormal, historical, sci-fi, fantasy, etc., it was written in such a way the reader felt him/herself “there.”

And a story that draws the reader in and doesn’t let up. One where the suspense and tension pulls readers from chapter to chapter until the end of the book.
What I’ve learned over the course of almost two decades since I first started writing fiction is that, while the premise is true, the premise is also extremely flawed.

One of my author friends writes thrillers. (And if you like to read thrillers, check out http://PamelaCowan.com).  Several of my friends write romantic suspense or paranormal romance. I hear them talking about writing a “page turner” a “can’t put it down” kind of book.

While I wish them all well, and hope they achieve mega success as authors, the probability of me reading their books is slim to non-existent.

Why?

Because I don’t want to read a “page turner” nor do I want to be up “all night because I can’t put the book down.” If people start talking about that or I see it in a review, I cross that book off my list.

Why?

I find there is enough thrills, drama, suspense, horror in the news every day. If I’m losing sleep because of nightmares and other sleep issues by watching/learning about what’s going on in “real life in real time,” why would I subject myself to fictional thrills, drama, suspense, horror in my leisure time?

Does this mean I only want lukewarm stories?

Not at all. There is a real difference between tension and suspense from my point of view. And because of our own personal/professional experiences our perception and tolerance levels are very different.

One of the things I realized working on the first draft of Gabriella: Chaos and Symmetry was I’d better get used to nightmares and other sleep disturbances. Gabby has had a very difficult childhood that she is finally coming to grips with. While I’ve never been a homeless teen living on the streets prostituting to survive, I’ve met and talked with several of them in my child welfare work.

So why tell you all this when the topic is “Getting Lost in a Book?” Because from my point of view, there is no one genre or sub-genre that will appeal to everyone. When a writer submits to an agent or editor, it is that person’s view of “relatable” “root for” “believable,” etc. that determines whether they are going to do business with the author.

Learn more about Ashley
My books are ones I like to read. Tension between heroine and hero, a bit of suspense from real life scenarios like non-custodial parent kidnapping, runaway teenager, love scenes that fit the story (i.e. do you really think the hero and heroine are going to jump into bed and have any kind of sex when she’s just heaved her guts out)?

But mainly I deal with tough topics such as infidelity, domestic violence, single parenting, cancer, trusting others as well as trusting oneself. Tough topics that women deal with every day. Because they survive the tough times, my characters are stronger by the end of their books than they believed they were in the beginning.

What gets them through those tough times?

The support of their sacred women’s circle, their spiritual practices and learning to trust that they can survive the leap into the void. That leap comes with no guarantee other than the only way to have the love of their life is to take it.

Your free copy of Lily: The Dragon and The Great Horned Owl is waiting for you. Just click here and sign up for my mailing list (I will not spam you and you can always unsubscribe).

I’ve also ventured into non-fiction and Staying Sane in a Crazy World's release is planned for March 2018! Click this link to be added to my mailing list and you’ll receive a free copy of Staying Sane as soon as it’s published. FYI: You are actually only added once to my mailing list but this way you get both books free!


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© 2018 Judith Ashley

Friday, September 1, 2017

What is the Importance of love scenes?

Judith is the author of The Sacred Women’s Circle series, romantic fiction that honors spiritual practices that nourish the soul and celebrates the journey from relationship to romance.
I’m not sure why, but in 2016 when Sarah Raplee and I were putting together our 2017 themes and topics, the song with the words “It’s the time of the season for loving” was running through my mind which is where this month’s Genre-ista theme came from.
As an author who writes romance with a variety of heat levels (sweet to steamy depending on the characters and their story) I used to struggle with that reality. Still when I think about the original series, I see no other way to write the ‘loving’ part than what I originally did.
For example: Ashley:Dragonflies and Dreams is the fourth book in the series. She learns she had breast cancer—and not for the first time. This is recurrent breast cancer and is detected when she is so very close to that five year mark when the probability of the cancer coming back is significantly small.
Daniel, the hero, has loved Ashley for some time. His loving comes in the form of taking care of her and her children. He becomes very inventive and while I’m tempted to share details (my first draft included many of the things he did), in my edits I deleted them. However, I’ve left these next two sentences:
He is a kind, gentle, loving man who loves Ashley and only wants what’s best for her. Spoiler alert: He definitely hopes (well, a bit more than just hope) she loves him, too.
I will acknowledge that Elizabeth:The Lady and The Sacred Grove which is the second book in the series is the opposite. It is, I think, the steamiest of the seven books. If a higher ‘heat level’ is usually not your thing, I believe Elizabeth has many positives. You can “visit” Ireland (or revisit if you’ve been there before) and learn more about the unconditional support that is an integral part of sacred women’s circles.
My promise to you is this: I do not write gratuitous sex scenes. There is a purpose behind each of the love scenes in each story and that is why in the case of Ashley and Hunter: The Dancer and The Drum there are no physical love scenes although they both have ‘loving’ scenes.
Please share your thoughts on the importance of love scenes to a story, to the development of relationships and the core romance. I truly do want to know.

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Go to JudithAshleyRomance.com and sign up for my occasionalnewsletter “Connections.” Follow the prompts to download your own digital copy of the first book in The Sacred Women’s Circle series.

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Friday, August 4, 2017

The Importance of Life-long Learning

Judith Ashley is the author of The Sacred Women’s Circle series, romantic fiction that honors spiritual practices that nourish the soul and celebrates the journey from relationship to romance.
Our topic this month is “School Days/School Daze” however, all of the Genre-istas are free to write whatever they want as long as it is at a PG-13 rating level (we do have young people who follow us)!

Since I no longer deal with School Days nor am I in a School Daze, I won’t regale you with old stories from my past when I was in a daze getting children ready for those first days of school.

Instead a bit of a spin-off from that topic “Life-Long Learning.”

While I do not seek another college degree or, at least not at this time, some type of Certificate of Achievement, I do watch webinars, read craft books and a truly great way to learn craft is by reading the books of other authors.

I love my covers!
Although the Original Sacred Women’s Circle series is complete as the seven heroines now each have their own book, the secondary characters in those books are lining up to be seen and heard.

Currently I’m just over 40K words into the first draft of Dr. Mark Parker’s Story. If you’ve read Lily, you met Mark. He is an orthopedic doctor and Lily has known him professionally for several years. They have a warm trusting friendship.

You also have met Ethan, the young physically abused boy that Mark sees in the Emergency Department. Something about Ethan speaks to Mark’s heart and he talks to Lily about how he can protect this little one from further abuse.

So how does writing this story fit in with being a life long learner? I’ve some research to do on what happens when bone doesn’t heal right. What is the process to “fix” it? When I worked in child protective services I learned that badly healed breaks could be re-broken, reset and heal correctly. However learning of it and actually knowing how that happens are two different things.

While I don’t need to recount the actual procedure, I can’t imagine Mark not explaining what was going to happen to both the child and her mama. And in fiction, the only way a character can explain a medical procedure is if the author knows the salient details.

Life-long learning is a critical factor in the publishing business. There’s something to learn in the actual process of writing: creating believable characters; describing setting so the reader is “there”; realistic dialogue are just a few. On top of the craft of writing, there’s new ways to upload and market and promote books being rolled out, if not every day then at least several times a year.

One of the traits I’m most grateful for is I was already a dedicated life-long learner before I put on my Indie Author hat.

Your free copy of Lily: The Dragon and The Great Horned Owl is waiting for you. Go to JudithAshleyRomance.com and sign up for my occasional newsletter “Connections.” Follow the prompts to download your own digital copy of the first book in The Sacred Women’s Circle series.


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Friday, July 7, 2017

Fireworks and Memories

Judith is the author of The Sacred Women’s Circle series, romantic fiction that honors spiritual practices that nourish the soul and celebrates the journey from relationship to romance.
This month the Genre-istas have as a writing prompt the word Fireworks. I’m looking forward to seeing what this creative group of authors comes up with!

Growing up 4th of July was a big deal! Extended family gatherings. Hamburgers and hot dogs on the BBQ grill. Bowls of potato and macaroni salad weighing down the red and white checkered table cloth. Kool-aid for the kids, iced tea of coffee for the adults.

Some years we made homemade ice cream with the “rule” if you wanted ice cream you had to help churn it. The littlest ones held by mom or dad who helped them give the crank a turn. Strawberries and homemade shortcake with whipped cream fresh from the hand beater. I know my mom and aunts appreciated the electric mixer when it came on the scene!

Games? Some years we went to the park and played softball. We also had a darts game and horse shoes as well as croquet that were set up in the front and back yard. Kids running through the sprinklers on really hot days is another memory. We had no air conditioning and electric fans were not common.

We stayed cooler by opening the windows and doors at night and cooling the house down. In the morning we’d close everything up, drawing shades and drapes closed to keep the heat out. One of the best investments I’ve ever made was installing a heat pump for my house and a ductless system for my upstairs. Unless the temperature is in the 90’s or higher, the ductless system keeps the entire house cool by keeping the attic area cool.

When I was a youngster, 4th of July was celebrated much differently. Fireworks were mainly set off on the 4th. There might be a few booms on the 3rd but we didn’t have to worry about our family dog for a week or more. Thankfully no one we knew was injured or killed by fireworks although that did happen, as did fires caused by sparks.

When I was a parenting grandma, I’d buy sparklers and legal fireworks and we’d set them off in the parking lot at the nearby elementary school. Several other neighbors did the same and we had a good time writing words with sparklers and watching the multi-colored flares against the dark sky.

I no longer seek a place to watch the professional displays. I can still see a few of the illegal high flying fireworks over the tree tops from my windows. Watching the fireworks on my television isn’t the same as standing outside swatting at the biting mosquitoes, watching the flare rise from the ground into the air.

Although I no longer drive around to find a place to park, hike to a viewpoint to watch the displays, I do have a television. It just isn’t the same no matter what channel, what coverage. The cameras just don’t do justice to the sky lighting up with magnificent burst of colors. Of course I’m not batting away the pesky biting mosquitoes.

What do you like about the 4th of July? Fireworks? Family gatherings? Camping?


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Friday, June 30, 2017

Grace Burrowes and M.L. Buchman: Favorite Authors


Judith is the author of The Sacred Women’s Circle series, romantic fiction that honors spiritual practices that nourish the soul and celebrates the journey from relationship to romance.
One of my favorite authors is Grace Burrowes. I’ve lost myself for many hours in her historical romance novels. Imagine my surprise when Genre-ista M.L. Buchman talked about a joint project he’d done with Ms. Burrowes!

Big Sky Ever After is a Montana Romance duet. Matt’s book is Nathan’s Big Sky. I loved the story of a New York City chef ending up at a ranch in Montana. Culture shock and much more. As a reader my warning is “Don’t read Nathan’s Big Sky on an empty stomach!

Ms. Burrowes’ Tartan Two Step has a culture shock of another kind. Magnus Cromarty travels from Scotland to Montana to check out a Phenom in the world of whisky brewing. Little does he know that the young woman he picks up at the bar is who he’s looking for.

One of the reasons I wanted to read these two stories is because I’ve enjoyed both authors’ earlier books. However, I especially wanted to read more of Ms. Burrowes contemporary romances. While I learned more than I ever knew I wanted to know about whisky distilling, in Ms. Burrowes SweetestKisses series, set in Maryland her background as a family law attorney is put to good use.

Because of my own background in child protective services I was particularly aware of how she portrayed the system that is in place to protect young people. In the child’s best interest was a concept that gained momentum during my years working in the CPS system. And Judge Jean Lewis, one of our circuit court judges, was known nationally for her work in using the “in the child’s best interest” standard in juvenile/dependency court.

I’ve completed the first three Sweetest Kisses books and am looking forward to reading the next and even more of Ms. Burrowes' contemporary romance. Not that I won't be spending time with her historical romance novels. I can see my keeper shelf holding more and more of Ms. Burrowes stories!

My caveat is this: there are child protective services workers who are conscientious, compassionate and genuinely care about the children in their caseloads. They do look at what the child wants and what is in that child’s best interest. However, I truly do understand and appreciate that if that CPS worker showed up in Ms. Burrowes’ stories, conflict and drama would be lost.

The reality is there are CPS workers as portrayed by Ms. Burrowes and there are also attorneys who do the easiest not necessarily the best for their young clients. For some attorneys working in family law or juvenile court is beneath them, drudgery, a thankless duty. I’m grateful Ms. Burrowes portrays lawyering in a child’s best interest as a higher calling. Making a positive difference in a child’s life only makes our society and our country stronger.

I'm always interested in your thoughts. Please let me know how important authenticity is to you as a reader?


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Friday, April 7, 2017

Jennifer Ashley's Ian Mackenzie

Judith is the author of The Sacred Women’s Circle series, romantic fiction that honors spiritual practices that nourish the soul and celebrates the journey from relationship to romance.

The Genre-istas are writing about their favorite Other Abled Characters this month and our guests are authors who write authentic other abled characters.

When we say “other abled” many think of a physical disability or illness that impacts a person’s ability to function.

Having had a head injury, a non-visible condition that dramatically affected my ability to do even simple tasks, I want to introduce you to Jennifer Ashley, an incredibly gifted author’s exceptionally well written The Madness of Lord Ian Mackenzie. This book is the first in of her Mackenzie/McBride series. Take my advice and start with this, the first book in the series, and work your way through. You’ll be impressed and entertained!

Be aware when you check out Ms. Ashley's website, she also writes shapeshifter paranormal. She's a best selling, award winning author in this genre but I remain a fan of her historical novels.

What draws me to this novel?

Watching Ian Mackenzie, we cannot see his challenges. Just by looking at him, he appears as the rest of his brothers do.

Outside.

Until we attempt to engage with him, he looks and moves about just like anyone else. Only when we try to catch his eye, talk to him, do we see he isn't like everyone else.

Of course in Victorian times, when this series is set, mental institutions, the ability to commit someone to one, the care (or lack) of patient care was very different than it is today.

As long as his father, the Duke of Kilmorgan, is alive, Ian is at risk. Therefore as long as his father is alive, the mental institution is where Ian survived.

We learn when reading Ian's story, not only about the ordeals survived but how he finds his way to his own happily-ever-after.

I’d say a lot more but I don’t want to spoil a heart-breaking and yet uplifting story about what it takes to find some semblance of ‘normal’, find a toe-hold and then a foot-hold on the path that will bring happiness.

I strongly encourage you to read the entire Mackenzie series. If that doesn’t fit in with your plans do find time to read the series through The Duke’s Perfect Bride, to see another phase of Ian’s story.

And if you are looking for a Western, check out PatyJager’s Doctor in Petticoats in her Halsey Brothers series.

Contemporary, paranormal? Sarah Raplee’s new release Blindsight is also meticulously researched.


What is your favorite other-abled character? And if you don’t have one yet, I hope by the end of the month you’ll have a list to add to your To Be Read pile!

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