Truthfully, I can’t imagine changing anything in my life,
even the dreadful experiences of losing a job, or my sister, favorite aunt, and
dad, and friends. Strange as it seems, and despite my longing to have all those
people back in my life, the things, good or bad, have shaped who I am.
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Plant
given to me by the Maine Romance Writers in honor of my sister.
They bloom
every year right around her birthday
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Would I take back the temper tantrum, when I was fourteen,
(mind you, old enough to know better,) when I refused to go to the school my
parents wanted me too? No. Sure, I regret being a PIA to my parents. And,
thankfully, I did not win that battle. I just celebrated my 50th
high school reunion.
Looking back, the best years of my life.
My best friends (male and female) to this day are from that
school, including those who I lost along the way. They were sorely missed, but
their influence in my life was ever present. We had an incredible reunion, not
only in recalling old memories, but many discussions on how growing up in the
60s and attending a Quaker school influenced every one of our lives. And all the
more meaningful, for me, was how much more I appreciated the experience and
lessons taught from the long-ago temper tantrum.
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YAY for
long-time, great friends |
Yes, I still talk
to my deceased family and friends, and wish they could answer me back, offer me
their wisdom, delight me with their humor, and accompany me on new adventures.
In truth, they are still there, in my heart and my mind.
But the fact is, if I changed any one thing, my life would
be different and I would have missed out on something. The old adage, when one
door closes, another opens. Each life experience led me to the next.
The one thing I do wish I could change are all the wasted
moments.
The moments I was too tired to write while working
full-time, and keep up on all the constant changes in social media and
marketing. The missed communication with friends who are no longer here. Those are my regrets. The moments where it was easier to veg on the couch in front of a
Hallmark movie. Even though the movies have inspired my writing.
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Anyone
remember high school Christmas dances?
This love story is about the chaperones.
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And right now, on Hallmark, it is Christmas in July, 24 hours a day.
Which is perfect timing for revising my holiday romance, which has all things
Thanksgiving and Christmas at a Vermont inn, including a refurbished sleigh.
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My hero
refurbishes an old sleigh as a surprise for the heroine. |
Okay, total disclosure, I do watch those movies over and
over and over. But I also take notes, study how they construct the plot, the
character arcs, details on setting, and what tropes they use. I AM working and
learning. That’s my story and I’m sticking to it.
Having said all that, the wasted time of not keeping up on
constant change, is now resulting in my taking more and more time out of my
writing to catch up. And, hate to admit, but the “old” brain takes a lot longer
to process the constant barrage of new information and updated techniques.
Still, I am who I am, because of the progression of my life
experiences.
So moving forward, I’ll try to waste less time, take more
opportunities to learn and experience, and live the rest of my life to the
fullest (okay, I’ll still watch Hallmark and devour romances, because in my
profession neither are a waste of time
😊 and they make me SUPER HAPPY.)
~ cottages to cabins ~ keep the home fires
burning ~
Delsora
Lowe writes small town sweet romances and contemporary westerns from the
mountains of Colorado to the shores of Maine. Author of the Starlight Grille series, Serenity Harbor
Maine novellas, and the Cowboys of
Mineral Springs series, Lowe has also authored short romances for Woman’s World magazine.
A first meet, royalty and the nanny romance
between a self-exiled prince with a royal chip on his shoulders and the local
rancher's daughter who rails against any man who tries to tell her what to do.
When she tries to tell the prince how to raise his son, tempers flare and
sparks fly.
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