Celebration – celebrating
yourself in particular – is our theme this month. Like Luanna blogged last
week, I tend to indulge in rewards or treats when I reach goals I set for
myself or achieve a special milestone, but as she notes, I’ve not really
thought about it as celebrating myself so much as celebrating the achievement.
Perhaps I really should try harder to give myself credit – get out of the
“box-checker” mentality to borrow a phrase from Michelle Obama’s memoir and
instead focus more on cultivating self-love.
One facet of finding
self-love is practicing mindfulness – being fully present and not in a constant
state of reaction and over-reaction to what’s going on around us. Heightened
awareness of life’s small joys is one of the many blessings I’ve counted during
these pandemic times.
Goals and milestones don’t
have to be momentous or consequential to merit a celebration – a distinction
that is more important than ever right now. I know I’m not the only writer or
creative type struggling to find creativity within the chaos around us these
days. But instead of berating myself for not using this time to storyboard or
brainstorm my next novel, I’m trying to focus on what I am accomplishing rather
than what I’ve not done.
I may not have plotted the
next Clubmobile Girls novel, but I have done quite a bit of background reading.
That novel is percolating, and its characters will burst to life any time now.
I may not have used this time
to get into the habit of posting new and enticing content on my social media
accounts on a regular basis, but I have done an online class relating to author advertising that I think will improve my ability to promote my new release later
this month.
It’s worth celebrating the
small things every bit as much as life’s larger moments. A positive mindset is
one powerful tool toward truly experiencing gratitude, self-love, and living
more fully. It's a habit I hope I will have cultivated enough to carry forward once we return to "normalcy" or more aptly the "new normalcy," whatever that may look like.
As Johnny Mercer sang so
memorably in 1944:
You’ve
got to accentuate the positive
Eliminate
the negative
And
latch on to the affirmative
Don’t
mess with Mister In-Between
And speaking of accentuating
the positive, I have a new release coming out on May 22nd -- just in time for Memorial Day
weekend. Pre-orders for the ebook version are live on Amazon here.
In
love, as in war, truth can be the greatest casualty.
When her New Orleans editor refuses to grant war correspondent credentials to a woman reporter, Hadley Claverie finds another route to the front lines: overseas duty with the Red Cross. She wants nothing more than to carve out a career as a respected journalist, but a sexy pilot set on playing by the rules undermines her determination to expose truths about the war, no matter the cost.
Struggling to overcome emotional trauma linked to Pearl Harbor, once-freewheeling B-25 bomber pilot Skip Masterson longs to prove he is worthy to carry on his brother’s legacy. Duty compels him to avenge the horrors his brother and friends suffered aboard the U.S.S. Arizona, but all Skip really wants is peace on a quiet porch back home. His heart has other plans, in the form of an intrepidly curious Red Cross girl who threatens his resolve to fly straight and subvert his hell-raising past.
As Allied forces wrest control of the Pacific, one island at a time, and the military taps skilled pilots for a highly-classified and unprecedented bombing mission from which Skip may not return, Hadley’s journalistic fire places her squarely in an ethical drop zone where truth harms, secrets protect, and love just might be the most harmful weapon of all.
From the sunny beaches of Australia to the lush and oppressive jungles of New Guinea, Carry a Crusading Spirit is a sexy and thrilling continuation of Clubmobile Girls, a series that champions the trailblazing role of women in WWII.
Learn
more about me and my writing on my website, and you can also find me on Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest, and Instagram.
You
can purchase my debut novel through the links below.
Amazon US
~ Amazon UK
~ Amazon CA
~ Amazon AU
~ Google ~ Nook
~ Kobo
5 comments:
Eleri, do you have any of your books in print yet? Last I looked they were only e-books.
Love that Johnny Mercer song. It was one we sung in my family at our sing-a-longs.
And, you are 100% correct in my estimation. It is and always will be about celebrating what we do achieve, even if it is only to have taken care of ourselves by not even getting dressed and having ice cream for breakfast.
Yes, Judith -- my first book is available in paperback for sure. The newest one won't show up as paperback until the release date of May 22nd -- Amazon only allows preorders of the ebook version.
As always, I enjoyed your post, Eleri. I'm looking forward to your release on May 22nd. My dad was a Marine in the Pacific theater who later became a pilot on the GI Bill after the war. Keep those stories coming!
Eleri, I so much agree with what you wrote but this ~ "Goals and milestones don’t have to be momentous or consequential to merit a celebration..." really resonated. So rather than beating myself up for not completing every item on my goals list for this quarter, I'll give myself a pat on the back for getting out of my pj's before noon.
Sarah -- I hope you'll enjoy Carry a Crusading Spirit! I'm glad to hear of your dad's service.
Luanna -- LOL -- I agree, I'm giving myself points for getting out of PJs before noon today too! It's the little things . . .
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