Showing posts with label bravery. Show all posts
Showing posts with label bravery. Show all posts

Tuesday, June 6, 2023

What's the worst that could happen?

 

I’m one of those people who gets an idea to try a thing and thinks ‘what’s the worst that could happen?’, but I want to try the thing, so don't worry about the potential disaster.

Many (many) moons ago, I left college to be a nanny in England. The earth didn’t leave orbit, nor did I become homeless, forced to wander the moors calling for Heathcliff. (Actually, that sounds kind of fun, doesn’t it?) But nor did I marry Prince Andrew – he never returned my calls. Uh … thank goodness.

I left college for the second time (see a pattern here?) and relocated to Baltimore with my then-boyfriend. We lived in a slightly scary neighbourhood (police helicopters were forever shining their searchlights in our backyard), but I survived, have a few exciting stories to tell, and am still married (37 years) to that boyfriend. 

Since then, I've had many ideas, some successful (writing a book can’t be that hard - ha!), others not so much. But I’m always willing and/or eager to try.

A few years ago, we built our dream retirement home. Well, ‘we’ didn’t do any of the actual building. The construction crew did all the work. DH and I merely supervised and made decisions. (Though there were times I’d have preferred to pound nails than decide where to put the freaking electrical outlets … grrrr.) But we left a few things unfinished because I had the idea that we’d work on those things ourselves. Save a few pennies in labour costs and try something new. It would be fun!

To clarify, there are a few things I have no desire to try, and they involve heights. Step onto a 60th-floor balcony? I’d rather not, thanks. Bungee jump? No, thank you! Skydive? Are you insane?!? Shingle a roof? Hm …

One of the undone projects was building a garden shed. You’re probably aware that a shed is useless without a roof.

And so up the ladder I went.

 

 

That’s me without my face blacked out. With me are my daughter-in-love and my long-suffering DH who goes along with most of my great ideas. Son1 took the photo.

As I ascended the ladder, I thought, ‘what’s the worst that could happen’. Death was a possibility. The shed is only one story tall, but I don’t think that matters if one lands on one’s head. A broken bone would be more likely, or a big, BIG bruise. 

No one was injured in the creation of this shed, apart from skinned knuckles. I perfected my hammering skills, and we get to brag about building a darned nice shed. And we have a few stories to tell. 

I’d never built a sundeck before either, so we did that next.

 



And since we were successful with the garden shed and sundeck, we next tackled the hen house.

 

 

What’s the bravest thing you’ve ever tried? Are you a fellow ‘what’s the worst that could happen’ thinker?

 

Luanna Stewart has been creating adventures for her imaginary friends since childhood. She spends her days writing many flavours of romance. When not torturing her characters, she’s in her kitchen baking something delicious. She lives in Nova Scotia with her patient husband and three hens. 

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Tuesday, September 11, 2018

Heroes and Heartbreak

by Madelle Morgan


 As I do every year on September 11, I think about true life heroes.

On this day seventeen years ago, one of the worst tragedies of the twenty-first century unfolded.

The sacrifices of so many courageous men and women on that terrible day are not forgotten. We owe them gratitude that we can only repay by striving to live up to their high standard of selflessness and courage.

The Oxford dictionary defines “hero” as:

1. A person who is admired for their courage, outstanding achievements, or noble qualities.

2. The chief male character in a book, play, or film, who is typically identified with good qualities, and with whom the reader is expected to sympathize.


The first definition relates to a person in real life. The second relates to the fictional hero in a novel. A romance author is in a unique position to merge the two definitions of hero in her characters.

Fictional Heroes as Role Models

We authors can give our fictional characters courage and other noble qualities, thereby reinforcing in stories the high standard of behavior to which we can all aspire.

Our fictional heroes are often flawed and wounded, just like real people. In our stories, love heals the wounded hero. The romance describes the hero’s path to healing and happiness. Romance novels thus resonate with and inspire many readers, giving hope that they too can similarly deserve and achieve healing and happiness.



Real Life Heroes

We all have heroes in our lives. Members of the military, first responders—firefighters, emergency medical teams, police officers—and others in service to the rest of us are heroes. In fact I dedicated my most recent novel to them. (The dog in that book is a hero too!)



But heroes have many other professions and roles in our lives. Heroes come in all sizes, ages, shapes and genders:


  • Caregivers.
  • Teachers who guide us to be our best selves.
  • Scientists who discover cures for deadly diseases.
  • Volunteers in our communities.
  • People who stand up to bullies.
  • People who devote their lives and resources to helping the less fortunate, animals, or other good causes.



    You can add to this partial list the heroes in your life.

    Each person can step forward and make a difference.


    In fact, every ordinary person who makes the world a better place is a hero. A person doesn’t have to win the admiration of thousands in order to be a hero. Unsung heroes may never win awards or be officially recognized for their efforts. It does not diminish their personal achievements.


    Please take a moment to honor the heroes who gave their lives on September 11, 2001 while attempting to save others.

    Madelle


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    Madelle writes romance set in Canada. Find all her books on Amazon.com

    Friday, October 24, 2014

    My Heroines Survive, So Why Not Me?

    By Linda Lovely

    Near death?

    Knock on wood! I’ve never come face to face with writing “THE END” to this life—though in Kindle terms I imagine my autobiography is at least 74% complete (excluding any epilogue).

    Yet my overactive imagination has no problem dreaming up all manner of ways in which I might meet my maker. That’s probably why I write romantic suspense and thrillers. If I can figure out ways for my heroines (and heroes) to elude what appears to be certain death, maybe I can do the same when I meet a crazed killer who:
    • hires a gnarly biker to run me down and beat me senseless with a tire iron
    • plans to use his outboard motor to turn me into chum while I’m swimming
    • intends to blow me sky high with the blocks of C-4 gathering dust in his garage
    • tinkers with a Ferris wheel gondola to splatter my body three stories down
    • dynamites a Jamaican cave to bury me inside.

    Well, you get the idea. My bad guys have many ways to kill my heroines (and me). So I’ve mentally visited “death’s door” hundreds of times with my characters. 

    Perhaps my lovable Aunt Kate’s to blame. When she babysat my sister and me, my great aunt acted out Macbeth as a bedtime story. So, naturally, if a flu bug kept me home from school, I imagined the creaking floors in our old house were caused by a knife-wielding madman ready to yell "Out, damn'd spot! out, I say!" shortly after he plunged his dagger in me. 

    My phobias are a great help to my villains. They seem quite keen on using my fear of heights, snakes, large spiders, small dark spaces and rabid dogs.Yet my heroines always survive. 

    That’s the great thing about romantic suspense. The heroine gets to live AND she gets the guy. Her brush with death makes the HEA (happy ever after) all the more sweet.

    Don’t you agree?