Showing posts with label hero. Show all posts
Showing posts with label hero. Show all posts

Tuesday, September 11, 2018

Heroes and Heartbreak

by Madelle Morgan


 As I do every year on September 11, I think about true life heroes.

On this day seventeen years ago, one of the worst tragedies of the twenty-first century unfolded.

The sacrifices of so many courageous men and women on that terrible day are not forgotten. We owe them gratitude that we can only repay by striving to live up to their high standard of selflessness and courage.

The Oxford dictionary defines “hero” as:

1. A person who is admired for their courage, outstanding achievements, or noble qualities.

2. The chief male character in a book, play, or film, who is typically identified with good qualities, and with whom the reader is expected to sympathize.


The first definition relates to a person in real life. The second relates to the fictional hero in a novel. A romance author is in a unique position to merge the two definitions of hero in her characters.

Fictional Heroes as Role Models

We authors can give our fictional characters courage and other noble qualities, thereby reinforcing in stories the high standard of behavior to which we can all aspire.

Our fictional heroes are often flawed and wounded, just like real people. In our stories, love heals the wounded hero. The romance describes the hero’s path to healing and happiness. Romance novels thus resonate with and inspire many readers, giving hope that they too can similarly deserve and achieve healing and happiness.



Real Life Heroes

We all have heroes in our lives. Members of the military, first responders—firefighters, emergency medical teams, police officers—and others in service to the rest of us are heroes. In fact I dedicated my most recent novel to them. (The dog in that book is a hero too!)



But heroes have many other professions and roles in our lives. Heroes come in all sizes, ages, shapes and genders:


  • Caregivers.
  • Teachers who guide us to be our best selves.
  • Scientists who discover cures for deadly diseases.
  • Volunteers in our communities.
  • People who stand up to bullies.
  • People who devote their lives and resources to helping the less fortunate, animals, or other good causes.



    You can add to this partial list the heroes in your life.

    Each person can step forward and make a difference.


    In fact, every ordinary person who makes the world a better place is a hero. A person doesn’t have to win the admiration of thousands in order to be a hero. Unsung heroes may never win awards or be officially recognized for their efforts. It does not diminish their personal achievements.


    Please take a moment to honor the heroes who gave their lives on September 11, 2001 while attempting to save others.

    Madelle


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    Madelle writes romance set in Canada. Find all her books on Amazon.com

    Wednesday, April 12, 2017

    We are all the heroes of our stories


    Hi everyone! I am YA author B A Binns , writer of contemporary and realistic fiction for teens. My tagline tells you what I am about - Stories of Real Boys Growing Into Real Men - and the people who love them. 

    I found three definitions for Hero in the dictionary –
    1. A person who is admired or idealized for courage, outstanding achievements, or noble qualities. 
    2. One who, in the opinion of others, has special achievements, abilities or personal qualities and is regarded as a role model or ideal. 
    3. The principal male character in a story.

    Only that last definition requires a specific gender.

    I know, this is "Romancing the Genres" so we should be about the romance conventions so definition number three should take precedence. And yet, maybe it's because I primarily write YA and things are a little looser in that genre, I prefer definitions 1 and 2. Those do not require a different word to distinguish between the male and female. In the Hunger Games, Katniss Everdeen is the hero, no feminization of the word is required. Peeta and Gale are love interests or sidekicks, she is the HERO saving the districts from the capital.

    Actor Asia Kate Dillon, who plays a gender non-binary character, Taylor Mason on the Showtime series Billions - http://www.sho.com/billions, (and who personally identifies as non-binary) is uncertain whether to be nominated in the Emmy category of Best Supporting Actor or Best Supporting Actress. Dillon wrote a letter to the Television Academy, stating, in part,
    "I’d like to know if in your eyes 'actor' and 'actress' denote anatomy or identity and why it is necessary to denote either in the first place?" and that "...if the categories of 'actor' and 'actress' are meant to denote assigned sex I ask, respectfully, why is that necessary?"
    Why indeed?

    It is worth noting that the Academy's answer was that any performer could submit under any category for any reason.

    I know, romance needs a male and female love story and we do need to tell which is which. But not really.

    M/M and F/F are both compelling sub-genres of romance. One of my favorite M/M romances, Mexican Heat, has two luscious male leads, Antonio and Gabriel. I assure you, neither played the part of the female in their growing relationship. Both the men in this 2009 Lambda finalist book are heroes in their own right. I found both so compelling I have never forgiven the author for never presenting readers with the promised sequel.



    I'm not doing a treatise on gender conformity. But I am asking why we feel the need to make the distinction? Especially because years ago, the romantic heroine was not the one who was "courage, outstanding achievements, or noble qualities." She was the motive for the male to perform his heroic deeds, possibly functioning as a sidekick, but basically arm candy. Yes, that has changed, and in the 21st century, most books feature "kickass" female protagonists. Since her role in the story has changed, why do we still need to differentiate by gender identity?

    For me, a hero, no matter what the archetype, is the protagonist who goes through an emotional inner arc, and who pushes past obstacles to get the job done. Alpha or beta, any archetype and, yes, any gender, if they see what needs to be accomplished and do not shirk the task but see it through to completion is a hero. Maybe that makes me more of a Woman's Fiction that a Romance aficionado, as you will see by my favorite book hero and series of all time..

    Anne Golon
    My  #1 hero(ine if you insist) is Angelique from the book series of the same name. And, by extension, the series author, Anne Golon (see http://www.jannaludlow.co.uk/Angelique/Anne_Golon.html). She is a nonagenarian who has faced some of the worst indignities the publishing industry has to offer, including not being allowed to use her own name when her first novels were published in the nineteen-fifties, because of fears no one would buy from a female author all the way to an attempt to seize her rights following her husband’s death that left her unable to publish new books for decades. The resulting lawsuit was settled only a few years ago, and now she is back to writing and publishing.

    A brief selection of some of the 13 Angelique books

    Her series of historical books begins when the title character is a typical seventeenth century adolescent member of the  noble class in rural France, far from court.  By the end of the series, Angelique is a mature woman with grown children, living in North America and negotiating treaties with both Native Americans and the British. In between she serves as a French ambassador to the Middle East, escapes from the harem of sultan Moulay Ismaiel, leads a rebellion against Louis IV, the "Sun King," and joins a group of Huguenots as they flee religious persecution for the new world. Many of the characters involved are real life historic figures.

    There are men in her life, many of who would be considered the hero in another book with a different heroine. But Angelique is always the hero of her own  story. The men she encounters may be handsome, strong, smart and capable (she deserves no less). In the end, most are little more than her love interests, like Peeta and Gale are to Katniss.

    Except for Angelique in Love which turns out to be a larger than life romance between Angelique and Rescator, the pirate who has been after her ever since she left the harem in Book 3. He emerges as a true hero for Angelique, possible the only man in history strong enough to be her match.

    See, even I can have have one traditional hero on my list.

    If you have any heros (male or female, or other) that you would like to discuss, and books to recommend, I'd love to hear about them. Drop a comment and share the particulars.

    Friday, March 18, 2016

    Who Is My Hero?


    Hi, I'm Pippa Jay, author of scifi that engages the emotions. When I saw the topic for this month's posts, I went blank. Hero is a word overused in the modern world and often for things I don't regard in the least bit heroic. I see it used a lot for sports personalities, for example. Frankly, I don't see a footballer as a hero in the true sense of the word. Someone kicking a ball around a field for 90 minutes or less for several grand, often shouting abuse and spitting? Not heroic. Someone who runs 26.5 miles in a rubber rhino suit to raise money for charity? Now that's heroic!

    Hero (from dictionary.com):
    noun, plural heroes
    1.
    a man of distinguished courage or ability, admired for his brave deeds and noble qualities.
    2.
    a person who, in the opinion of others, has heroic qualities or has performed a heroic act and is regarded as a model or ideal:
    He was a local hero when he saved the drowning child.
    3.
    the principal male character in a story, play, film, etc.
    4.
    Classical Mythology.
    a being of godlike prowess and beneficence who often came to be honored as a divinity.
    (in the Homeric period) a warrior-chieftain of special strength, courage, or ability.
    (in later antiquity) an immortal being; demigod.

    I've never really had an iconic real life hero or heroine. Is that bad? To me, it's the unnamed and often forgotten day to day heroes who deserve recognition. The ones who risk their lives in the emergency services saving others, and helping to keep us safe, like the ambulance crew who rushed out to me when I had a panic attack while heavily pregnant and suffering from a chest infection. The carers and the teachers. The volunteers who work at shelters for the homeless or for injured or abandoned animals. The soldiers who fight to defend those who can't defend themselves. Those who stand up for the rights of others despite the abuse or physical attacks. Hundreds of people whose names may never be known.

    But in my small, everyday life, my husband is my hero because there are some days when he saves my sanity if not my life. He's the guy who, three months after first starting to date me, stayed by my side and held my hand when my mum died when I was just nineteen. He's been there through three pregnancies with me, including medical complications and an emergency Caesarean with our first child, and one miscarriage. And even though when I first started writing and he thought it was just a pipe dream, he's now the one that gives me a hug when I have my bad days and reminds me how far I've come and what I've accomplished.

    He might not fit anyone else's definition of a hero, but he does for me, and he provides the background inspiration for so many of my own fictional heroes who would do anything for their loved ones and family, and heroines who would do the same.
    7th May, 1993

    Saturday, August 22, 2015

    Is it too late?

    By Jessa Slade

    Is it too late for you to be a doctor or lawyer or shoe salesman? Yes? Damn, sorry. Well, if you’re doomed to be a working writer, here’s one thing (not the only thing, mind, or even the most important thing, but a thing) I think you should know before publishing:

    Have a strategy.

    I know this is sort of boring, business-y advice, but it’s something I wish I’d done. I’ve always been more interested in the art of writing than the business side, and that hasn’t helped my publishing career. I’ve made decisions on a whim and spread myself too thin. I’ve jumped on good opportunities that I haven’t been able to capitalize on. I’m playing catch-up now, learning the boring business side on the fly* and trying to retrofit a plan to multiple pen names and titles when having a strategy from the start would have been easier and likely more profitable.

    Obviously, everyone’s strategy is going to be customized. But I think there are some core questions to noodle upon on your way to crafting a publishing strategy.

    1. What do I want out of publishing? (A traditional contract? Self-publishing control? A one-and-done books just so I can say I did it? Fame and riches?)

    2. How can my personal strengths support my publishing goals? (And if my skill set isn’t sufficient to reach my goals, should I be rethinking my plan?)

    3. What creative and business choices are likely to contribute to my success? (How can I make my stories even more appealing to my sort of readers? Who are the key players around me and what can I learn from them?)

    4. How am I going to implement my plan? (What is my timeline? Who is going to be on my publishing team? What else do I need to know?)

    5. Eh, ef it. Let’s do this thing!

    Once you are published, the situation gets much more chaotic. You have to oversee the released book** while managing the pipeline on the next books and at the same time looking ahead to possibly changing your strategy based on how your plan is executing. You will never have more time and less stress than you do before you publish, so make the best use of those brain cells to position yourself properly. In the end, you’ll probably find you rushed the process anyway (thanks a lot, #5) and made mistakes, but having strategized once, you’ll be able to salvage the best pieces and rethink as necessary.

    I take a certain amount of twisted comfort in knowing that I can revise my career at least as much as I revise my stories. :)

    * The world of publishing is going through a lot of changes, and I don’t see it coming to a peaceful status quo anytime soon, so learning is going to be an on-going task. I just remind myself learning new things is good for my brain.

    ** Even traditionally published authors are finding that many of the tasks involved in making a book successful are falling on their shoulders.

    Bonus hard truth: no one cares as much about your career as you do, so due diligence is always on you, no matter how or where you publish.

    If you have a creative or business strategy that worked out well for you -- or that failed miserably! -- please share so we can all learn more.


     Bio: There are too many cool worlds to explore! Which is how Jessa Slade got started writing paranormal romance, urban fantasy romance and science fiction romance… but then dabbled in hot contemporary romance as Jenna Dales…and now also writes sexy shapeshifting romance as Elsa Jade. All her worlds feature mighty alpha males and strong, smart heroines with a bit of attitude. You can get QUEEN OF STARLIGHT free most places ebooks are sold or HERO for 99¢ at Amazon or free with Kindle Unlimited.






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    Wednesday, August 14, 2013

    Heroes and Heroines in History

    Hi everyone!
    I am YA author B. A. Binns. How can it possibly be August already? But then any time is a good time to talk about heroes and heroines, real and fictional.

    I began thinking about this post, I realized every book/hero/heroine that came to mind were historical novels I read during my college years and never forgot.


     
    I loved Désirée, by Annemarie Selinko. This book made a history hater (myself) actually do independent research on the material it contains. Because most of this unbeleivable story happens to be true. Désirée Clary, a merchants daughter, joins Napoleon's court when her sister marries Napoleon's brother. She is briefly engaged to Napoleon before marrying Jean-Baptiste Bernadotte the son of a tailor who rose throught the army from the rank of private to Marshall of France. Jean-Baptiste eventually became  Charles XIV John, King of Sweden and Norway (no war necessary, he is rich and the country is bankrupt so he buys the throne) then spends years living in fear of a revolution against him (it did happen in France, after all) becoming so paranoid the country does want to force him to abdicate--in favor of his son. Meanwhile Desiree remains in France and they live apart for years before she returns to Sweden to rule at his side.

    Seriously, reality is stranger than fiction. 

    This book inspired me to do something I never had before, study history of my own free will. The book was filled with real characters,including the title heroine. Maybe it was the idea of real people rising from common society into royalty, fighting real wars and having real loves, successes and sometimes failures, pulled me in.  Where are the Jean-Baptiste's of today?

    The French husband and wife team Sergeanne Golon penned the Angelique series, the Harry Potter of my college years. The books followed the fictional Angelique from her childhood to her arranged marriage with Count Joffrey de Peyrac when she was seventeen. They quickly fell deeply in love and had two children before he was unjustly accused of a crime and burned at the stake.  In her twenties, the newly widowed Angelique did whatever it took to protect her children.  From one book to the next we watched her mature, refuse the advances of the king she relt responsible for Joffrey's death, become a diplomat, fight a rebellion, and join forces with a group of religious outcasts.

    Then came Book 5, Angelique in Love, where she is reunited with Joffrey.  He had escaped execution, and built a new life as a pirate.  Embittered by his travails,  he wants nothing to do with her or his former life. And yet, once reunited, he can't stay away from her, and in the end love does conquer all. Joffrey is one of my heros because of the way he handled everything life had thrown at him from a childhood that left him with a crippled leg, to his efforts at acquiring knowledge of science and math that served to bring him power and alliances after his excape, to his undying love for Angelique.

    The last two books in the series were never translated into English, largely over a disagreement between the author and publisher and the death of Serge Golon, Anne's husband.  I joined a Friends of Angelique fan club, and we kept in contact with Anne, hoping she would complete the series (she has even more adventures inside her head) and arrange for publication in English. A few years ago, after the club president died without ever learning what heppened next, I began learning French.

    It was painful, but I completed the series with the now mature Angelique and her two grown sons, settled in Canada and helping Joffrey carve out his own empire with the help of local Indian tribes.  And she now has a set of twins to deal with in her mid-forties. Life goes on. That was the real joy of this hero and heroine, watching them grow up and grow old together, dealing with problems, falling apart and then coming together again, with a love that endured over decades.

    Are there any special historical figures (real or fictional) that you have read about? Please comment and share, I'd love to hear ideas for new books.




    Friday, August 9, 2013

    Heroes and Heroines, Fictional or Real?

    by Diana McCollum


    There are so many heroes and heroines it’s hard for me to choose just one. 
    On that note, I’m picking my little sister

    We were not “girlfriend close” when we were young, because of a seven year age difference.  We always shared a bedroom  and by the time I was fourteen years old, she was seven years old and in my “stuff”.

    After we grew up, married, and had children we became friends.  Over the years we sometimes lived close to each other, and sometimes thousands of miles apart.  No internet or cell phones back then so communication was letters and Christmas cards

    What I admire her for are the things she’s overcome in her life.  I’m not going to touch on all those things as they are personal and medical diagnosis etc. 

    I will tell you she is legally blind in one eye a complication of one of the medical conditions she has experienced.  In spite of that she is a dedicated writer.  I admire that.

    Now my sister and I are pursuing the same dream, becoming published authors.  She and our friend, Judith, and I are collaborating on an Anthology to be published in January 2014. 

    Sister dearest is one of my critique partners.  Believe me she doesn’t sugar coat anything!  We brainstorm well together, we bolster each other up when we’re down, and we listen to each other.

    In my personal life she is my savior, my sounding board, and my shoulder to unload on.  Her advice is always sound and on spot.  My life would be so empty if she wasn’t in it.  She is my best friend, and I love her dearly.

    I am popping a virtual bottle of Champagne and toasting you, little sister, for all you are and all you do.  

    Oh, yeah, here’s some virtual chocolate too!!  There’s enough for everyone!!


    Here’s to you Sister extraordinaire, confidant, best friend, and one of our Blog Queens, Sarah Raplee(McDermed) 

    Tuesday, July 2, 2013

    Gentle(Wo)men Prefer Blonds ~ even if they don't know it yet!

    Let us consider a rare breed: the blond romance hero.

    Very few male leads are blond if book covers are to be believed. Tall, bleached, and handsome has never been a thing. Instead, the brooding brunette has been spoon-fed to the romance reading public for decades.

    For some reason, blonds are seen as weaker than their ebony-coifed counterparts. Yet in reality, the warrior with the wheaten locks is traditionally more fierce than his opponent.

    Do you need proof?

    Let's go back to post-Biblical times when the Teutons ran the Roman army ragged. Big blond men from northern Europe were legendary, their fierceness in battle the stuff of folklore.

    Next came the Vikings of Scandinavia. Sailors, explorers, traders - and invaders - these intrepid, flaxen-topped Northmen bravely went where no men had ventured before, successfully sailing west into the sunset several centuries before Christopher Columbus, an brunette, dared to try the same.

    During the Renaissance, blond hair and blue eyes were regularly portrayed as signs of beauty, and associated with noble moral qualities. This preference didn't express racial preferences, but instead reflected the traditional symbolism of light as opposed to darkness.

    Fifty years ago, movies like "Beach Blanket Bingo" sported sun-tanned and sun-bleached hard bodies, honed by hours on a surfboard. Girls swooned. Men emulated.

    Blonds used to have more fun. Lately however, the venerable blond has been under attack. Blond jokes are aimed at women, but the spillover onto the male gender is unavoidable, whether consciously or not. The sheen of golden tresses has been connected with the lack of intelligence, and that idea has been carried to a comical level.

    I believe the time has come for all good women to stand up and champion the fair-haired hero.

    Big, blond, buff, and beautiful with eyes the color of seawater. What's not to swoon over?

    May I present these gentlemen for your consideration:
    • Chris Hemsworth - "Thor" as he is currently known.
    • His brother, Liam. (Someone should bet on that bloodline. Winners all around.)
    • Derek Hough from "Dancing With the Stars."
    • Clay Matthews, linebacker with the Green Bay Packers.
    • Alexander Skarsgaard - Erik from "True Blood."
    • Brad Pitt during certain phases.
    • David McCallum in his youth; Illya Kuryakin posters covered my adolescent bedroom walls.
    • And Nikolaj Coster-Waldau - Jamie Lannister on "Game of Thrones" - is a dirty, dirty, blond. A deliciously bad boy blond.

    And then there are the Hansen men: Rydar, Brander, Martin, Reid, and Nicolas. These guys are smart enough to run circles around any blond joke thrown at them. Plus there's not an ugly gene in the mix.

    It's time for a breath of fresh hero, don't you agree? Let's all resurrect respect for a yellow-streaked mane on a handsome head, lightened after hours spent in the sun, sweating through physical labors until every bulge of muscle shines in sculpted detail.

    *sigh*


    Who's with me?

    _____
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