Showing posts with label compassion. Show all posts
Showing posts with label compassion. Show all posts

Tuesday, November 29, 2022

The Surprise and Discovery of Story Arcs ... by M. Lee Prescott

“The spiritual path is not a solo endeavor. In fact, the very notion of a self who is trying to free her/himself is a delusion. We are in it together and the company of spiritual friends helps us realize our interconnectedness.” – Tara Brach

 Greetings!

             It’s Mary Lee, writing as M. Lee Prescott, author of mysteries, romances – contemporary and western -- other fiction and nonfiction. No matter what the genre, my books, even the nonfiction titles, are about interconnectedness and the communities we create, large and small. I believe Tara Brach’s words about being “in it together” and want that for “characters” in my fiction, nonfiction, and in my life.

            The theme of connectedness came to me when thinking of what I might blog because I’ve been pleased with the story arc linking two of my recent romances, last year’s A Horseshoe Crab Cove Christmas (HCCC) and this December’s Joe’s Calling. They are both part of the Morgan’s Fire series, set in New England, number 7 and 8 respectively.

            When writing series, many authors, myself included, introduce, or incorporate minor characters who then move to center stage in subsequent books. I love this foreshadowing as it builds reader excitement for what’s ahead. We become attached to these relatively minor characters when they do something that touches our heart, grabs our attention, or makes it impossible to ignore them. They push in, make themselves known, and ask for their own stories. There is delightful anticipation that builds in the characters as well as the readers and writers interacting with them. Such fun!

             Although Joe O’Leary appeared in earlier titles in the Morgan’s Fire series, the holiday book, begins and ends with him. A Horseshoe Crab Cove Christmas follows him as he grapples with life after leaving the priesthood. At fifty, where will his spiritual journey take him, and will he/ must he make his way alone? Early on in HCCC, as the village bursts forth celebration, Joe meets Meryl, chef of the town’s hottest new restaurant. Amidst the tinsel, lights, and carols, these two connect, first as friends and then, perhaps, something more. There is promise at the story’s conclusion. There is also the question Brach addresses about solo versus connected journeys, spiritual or otherwise. Do we need or want loving friends on our life passages? Are our spirits destined for interconnectedness or something else? 

The village of Horseshoe Crab Cove sparkles as the community celebrates a birthday and a wedding. The kindling of a new relationship and a baby boom bring joy and resonance to the season as Joe O’Leary makes the difficult decision to leave the priesthood. Will he find peace in his new life? Celebrate the holidays with a copy of Morgan’s Fire # 7!

 Links to A Horseshoe Crab Cove Christmas!

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    Of course. I write romances. Connectedness always wins out. In Joe’s Calling the story arc continues as these two lovers explore whether, indeed, freeing oneself to walk alone is a delusion or the only path to wholeness in life. One can and should practice self-love and compassion, in effect, romancing oneself, but Joe’s Calling is a romance between two people, so a shared path looks promising!

            Down-to-earth Meryl Stockdale meets gorgeous ex-priest, Joseph O’Leary and their relationship explodes with fiery passion. Certain she’s found the love of her life, Meryl is shocked when Joe suddenly disappears. After 30 years, the priesthood has shaped Joe in ways not easy to put aside. He loves Meryl but struggles in his new life. Is there a loving future ahead for this couple? Find out in Morgan’s Fire book 8!

Pre-order links to Joe’s Calling: Release date: December 20th

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            Story arcs and foreshadowing are important elements of many series, but somehow the links between these two books seemed subtler yet determined. As if the silken threads of emotional connection blew forward in the soft, prevailing winds, from book to book, without my awareness. This particular arc became a discovery for me, a surprising, lovely connection that supported plot, but also these beloved characters.

             I wish everyone a lovely December and happy holiday season! May your connections sustain you as the days grow darker and bring you peace, comfort, and joy.

             Warmly,

            Mary Lee

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Monday, August 8, 2016

The Wakeup Call that Changed Everything!



By: Marcia  King-Gamble
www.lovemarcia.com




Change can be good or at the very least enlightening. While challenging, and often daunting, it can make you realize what you’re made of, and it certainly gives you an opportunity to reflect and grow.

Like so many others, these last ten to fifteen years have not been easy for me.  I left a long marriage, downsized an executive career, lost parents and animals I adored, and overall was forced to make some tough decision on my own.  There were times I barely made it, but I held on by my fingertips and persevered.

While these past fifteen years haven’t always been laughter filled, I still remember that life changing day in 1988, four days before Christmas when the world got a huge wake up call. On December 21st, a plane literally fell from the sky, starting a chain of events that would later be labeled terrorism.


Pan Am’s flight 103 was on its way back from London to New York when it went down in Lockerbie, Scotland, taking with it many lives. While I was no longer a flight attendant, I worked in a managerial capacity for the airline.  That tragedy took with it 243 passengers, 16 crew members, and  11 innocent bystanders on the ground. 

The day when it happened, I was at the Pan Am Building in New York City, interviewing for a marketing position. My interview was cut short and we were all summoned back to our respective departments. My department happened to be crew scheduling, and one of my duties was to accurately staff the planes.  So for all intents and purpose, I knew the names of every flight attendant on board that plane. I had  actually flown with some.   These were real people to me; men and women who were family.  I knew their circumstances intimately. 


My office was in Hangar 14. There, phones rang all day. Distraught families began showing up at JFK airport, needing to  get updates or at least be offered words of comfort. We had nothing for them. News dribbled in sporadically.  Groups of employees began banding together. After our regular duties we would go to the terminal to talk with the families who’d lost loved ones. We had no grief training, we were just there to hug and try to reassure these grief stricken people that the airline would get them to Lockerbie somehow. We did the best we could.

During the day I was assigned the Command Center and I had the distasteful job of making sure that if a flight attendant’s body part was identified,  it was listed next to their name as ‘found.’ Gruesome and upsetting as this experience was,  it drove home for me the fragility of life and the need for compassion.



Years later, I was to write a book, (yes a romance) about an airplane that fell out of the sky and how two people who lost friends aboard, were able to work through it and find love.   That book is titled Eden’s Dream and I  released it again with a new cover. 



But tragic as this event was, some good did come out of  it.  The world is now better prepared to deal with the aftermath of terrorism.  Transportation companies now have trained Go teams that are dispatched to work with the bereaved and offer what comfort they can. These are usually volunteers who pack up on a dime and head off to the disaster site.  Terminal security has improved greatly. No longer (with few exceptions,) can anyone on a whim, accompany a passenger to the departure gate.  Today, Federal Air Marshals blend in with regular passengers and are on designated flights.



But this blog isn’t about improved security in the travel industry, or about Go Teams, it’s about how tragedy can be life changing.  As  a result, I am a trained crisis manager today. I have learned to be more compassionate while remaining unflappable.  I have learned not to take one day for granted, and I have gained an even deeper respect for my former colleagues, crew members who go to work day after day, never knowing who might be on board and if they’ll actually come home.   




I have learned that a smile and genuine kindness can go a long way.      

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Friday, April 3, 2015

I Hope You Read This!

It is Thursday night, April 2, and I've not written my post for Friday. I've lots of ideas about the monthly topic "Hope" but my mind is scattered and for some reason not bringing things together in a very coherent manner.

As I was scrolling through the television channels just before I turned it off (yes, it doesn't make a whole lot of sense to check things out and then press the "off" button but that's something I often do.

I saw the Monica Lewinsky was on Ted Talk. Now I've probably watched fewer than a half dozen Ted Talks---ever but this caught my eye.

And I watched Ms. Lewinsky talk about public humiliation and public shaming and how it has become a big business with the advent of social media, etc. I was shocked when she quoted research that showed that the emotional impact of humiliation is stronger than anger much less a positive emotion.

While our topic this month is "Hope", I encourage you to listen/watch her Ted Talk on Compassion. In fact I hope you listen to it because she makes excellent points and clarifies for me what some of my reluctance is in being "out there" on the internet.

I'm Judith Ashley, author of The Sacred Women's Circle series, romantic fiction that honors spiritual practices that nurtures the soul and celebrates the journey from relationship to romance. You can learn more about me at http://judithashleyromance.com