Showing posts with label flexibility. Show all posts
Showing posts with label flexibility. Show all posts

Friday, May 16, 2025

The Years That Were, Are, and Will Be - A final post for RTG by M.L. Buchman

                                                    


Years That Were

It’s funny looking back over the years of my coming to play at RTG. 

My very first post here, December 8, 2012, sounds very positive (https://romancingthegenres.blogspot.com/2012/12/agile-thinking.html, OMG those early covers were awful…and the next ones were worse!). 

I’m not quite sure how I did that because it was one of those depths-of-despair times that occur in any long writing career. My publishing career was taking off, very slowly. I’d just received my first royalty notice from my trad publisher. They’d bought eight books (four were already written and in the pipeline), but the first one had only just released. 

Imagine, as my wife unfolded that royalty statement while I washed the dinner dishes, how excited we were. I’d been laid off in August [thank you, Mr. Unscrupulous Boss] and we were dead broke [thank you, recession]. Then she read out the amount the represented our great hope for the future. What we’d earned was below the publisher’s minimum threshold for cutting a check ($2.34 against a limit of $10). We lost it! I mean both lying on kitchen floor holding our sides against the laughter that lay dangerously close to hysteria.

Less than six weeks later, I’d given up the corporate job hunt (after a 30-year career), dumped the city apartment for a place half the price out on the Oregon Coast, sold the house we’d built to retire in (but had to rent out) for half its real value (again, thank you, recession), and gambled on my writing career actually taking off. 

You see, it was the year after the Kindle Christmas. I’d written a little Christmas book set in the same world as my traditional books, but I was selling it indie. Curiously, The Night Is Mine and Daniel’s Christmas would continue to be my bestselling books until I launched my Miranda Chase thrillers in 2019.


The Night Stalkers #1 and The Night Stalkers Holidays #1


Years That Are

Did I make breakout success due to indie? Well, yes and no.

I didn’t get any boost by being one of the very first to publish indie back in 2009 when the wisdom was: Publish anything indie and you’ll make a fortune. The $0.99 revolution didn’t touch me. My Amazon and Facebook ads rarely even paid for themselves (even when I got professional help). The Bookbub storm blew in some other sea than mine… 

I did it by writing the best stories that I could as fast as I could. The learning curve was horrendous, challenging, fascinating, and (did I mention?) horrendous. The production rate is something I’ve never achieved since—the power of desperation to grab onto that brass ring of being a full-time writer was immense. I’d been dreaming about that ring since I first started writing in 1993 and had my first book published in 1997.

Curious side note: though I’ve only managed to write one more book in that series, I can’t wait to get back to it. I already have two more already started…now I just need to find time to finish them.

So, a mere 6 weeks after that first RTG post, I’d made the jump. I was now a hybrid author struggling to complete the leap of faith my wife had agreed to take with me.

Curiously, and rather unexpectedly, one of the most important changes to happen that year was announced very quietly in an RTG post. In 2012, while my known world was collapsing around me, an editor forced me (almost literally) to write a short story for a Christmas Ghosts anthology. The fact that I didn’t write short stories, holidays, or ghosts carried no weight with her. So, in 2013, my first short story launched—to rave reviews.

Over the next decade, I’ve written over 200 short stories and they make up a full third of my income. Ghost of Willows Past still sells nicely every Christmas season.

Always remaining flexible is one of the great keys to success in this industry. After seven years, forty-two novels, and seventy short stories in the military romantic suspense of my Emily Beale Universe (https://EmilyBeale.com), I began to worry about keeping myself challenged as a writer. That’s an essential, to always learn and grow. Otherwise creative stagnation becomes closely followed by career stagnation.

Besides, I had discovered a character who I couldn’t wait to hear from. It took me two years to develop and understand Miranda Chase enough to write her. Two years of wondering if my military romance audience would follow me into thrillers. Of wondering if fans of the ultra-competent icon of Major Emily Beale would embrace an autistic air-crash investigator unsure of everything about her.

Fifteen books later? The answer was absolutely! 

But it was only by facing my fears and following my character into story that it happened. Had I failed to embrace Miranda, I expect my career would be having a much smaller arc, rather than still supporting my family as a full-time writer thirteen years after corporate America spit me out.


Years That Will Be

In the dozen years since that first post, the publishing world has changed in new ways at a new pace. No, I’m not ignoring the history when Dickens, Twain, and others were self-published. Nor the rise of the big publishers, the catastrophic fall of the pulp magazines in 1959 and 1960, or the nearly overnight collapse of the local distributors in the 1990s. Publishing has long since proven that it is far from done with evolving. 

However, between indie, the rise of direct sales (https://shop.mlbuchman.com), and now AI, the speed of that change is mind-boggling.

They’re not the only thing that is changing in my world either. I’ve been mostly writing Miranda Chase for the last 5 years. But a funny thing happened on Wedgetail, Miranda Chase #15. My first readers asked, “So, what’s your new series?” 

“My new one? I’m still writing Miranda.”

They shook their head sadly at my writerly naiveté. 

My Emily Beale Universe, being in the romance world, had a new hero and heroine in each book. Yes, Emily was a power figure throughout the multiple series that universe became, but it wasn’t all her story.

Miranda Chase led all fifteen titles in her thriller series personally, growing and evolving with each one. And, in Wedgetail, I’d brought all of her emotional curves to closure without realizing it. Well, almost. She has at least one more book coming, probably this fall.

So, while I have many books that have been on hold while I’ve written Miranda, will any of them become such a major, career-altering force as Emily or Miranda? How will direct sales, AI, and whatever comes after that affect my career? How will it affect yours?

We have a few key phrases on our refrigerator to remind us of how to approach the future. And thirteen years coming to play at Romancing the Genres (thank you so much for the support and congratulations on achieving something so wonderful for so long), I think these make the best advice I can offer to myself and to you:

  • Semper Gumby – If you’re too young to remember the Gumby character, look it up. This fixture of my childhood is the ultimate reminder to be flexible.

  • That was so three days ago. – Don’t stay rooted in the past simply because that’s what has worked before. 

  • Violet is Level Six. Start where you stand. – This is a different version of the previous one, coming from a misquote of my second book (thankfully long since out of print). Translates as The past is meaningless. Look ahead. At every disaster along the road (and there will be plenty of those), we remind ourselves to look ahead, not back.

  • Have fun! – Seriously. This is the biggest tool I’ve got. If you aren’t having fun, a) your audience can tell, and b) why bother? Life is too short to be wasting your time.



USA Today and Amazon No. 1 bestseller M. L. “Matt” Buchman is the author of 75+ action-adventure thriller and military romance novels, 200 short stories, and lots of read-by-author audiobooks
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PW says: “Tom Clancy fans open to a strong female lead will clamor for more.” Booklist declared his romances were: “3x Top 10 of the Year.” A project manager with a geophysics degree, he’s designed and built houses, flown and jumped out of planes, solo-sailed a 50-foot sailboat, and bicycled solo around the world…and he quilts.


Come visit: https://mlbuchman.com. 


Thursday, May 15, 2025

Endings and Beginnings by Maggie Lynch

An elephant and cat sitting on a bench

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As RTG stops their posting after 14 years of being in the blog space, my heart weeps a little because it has been a part of my blog viewing for all that time. Some of the authors on RTG have become a friend, others are simply admire what they do. The good news is I know that all these authors can be found elsewhere. On their own websites, on other peoples’ blogs, on substack, and a myriad of other places. I know I will be catching many of them in other places.


For myself, the past five years have been the story of endings and beginnings, definitely in that order. As I’ve aged, I am more aware of endings because more loved ones have died, and many people I don’t know personally but who have impacted my life (musicians, actors, artists, political leaders, and many others) have passed. Though I do grieve those losses and think about days gone by and how my life used to be, I also actively look for new beginnings. If I can’t wake up and expect a new beginning each day, I will find it near impossible to get out of bed.


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Description automatically generatedBeginnings can be small: new buds on my rhododendron bushes, a change in weather, the smell of a new coffee flavor in the morning, an email from someone I’ve lost touch with, a phone call from a grandchild. All of these are beginnings—a chance for me to decide what kind of day I’m  willing to work toward. How am I going to pace myself to take in the endings that will undoubtedly happen during the day and celebrate the beginnings? 


Beginnings can also be major changes in my life. Two years ago, I came out of retirement from academia to take on a part-time contract with a community college system in order tro support some financial needs of family members with health issues. I never thought I would return to academia. When I retired in 2015, I was committed to my “new beginning” as a full-time writer. I’ve enjoyed it and as I’ve been spending less time as a writer and more time in academia again, I’ve really missed that freedom. At the end of this academic contract, I will return to my writing life full-time in January 2026.


So, another ending and another new beginning. Though I’ve been a full-time writer before, so much has changed in the business, the technology, the competition, the readers and how they consume stories (print, ebook, audiobook, video). What I have learned during this period of less fiction writing is that I need to write regularly for my own mental health. I need to tell my stories. It is how I process the world—both past and present experiences. When I don’t have that time I suffer, my mental health suffers, my ability to stay on task in anything I’m doing suffers. I’m not my best self. I need the quiet time, the dreaming time, the time to create a world where justice is served, love wins the day, and people working together thrive.


A sunset over a beach

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The above picture is one of my favorites of all time, as a reminder of beautiful endings and new beginnings. I took this at Middle Beach Lodge in Tofino, BC (the west coast of Vancouver Island) in the early 2000s. My husband and I were on a one-week vacation trip and traveled all over the Island learning about indigenous culture, the arts, and stayed several days at the lodge. It was heaven. The picture is not color corrected at all. That is truly how it looked. I particularly loved the single red/purple line coming up the beach as if it was reaching toward the future. 


I hope all of you are also reaching to the future, finding a way to sustain yourself in difficult times. Don’t give up on your dreams as they are the essence of creativity. Always nourish that spark in some way—whether it is only once a week or once a month. Do not let that light go out.


I very much appreciate all of you who have followed me on RTG year after year. If you want to continue to follow me, learn what’s coming next with my books and future writing goals, below is a listing of the places you can find me. I hope to hear from you on one or more of these places.


Website: https://maggielynch.com

Substack: https://maggielynchauthor.substack.com/  Substack is now where my newsletter resides.  I try to post once per week with news about messy moments and heroic choices in life, in books, and in both the big and little things we do to survive and thrive.


BlueSky:  https://bsky.app/profile/maggielynch.bsky.social  This has replaced Twitter X for me.


Facebook: https://facebook.com/maggiewrites


Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mcvaylynch


Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/maggielynchauthor/


BookBub: https://bookbub.com/authors/maggie-lynch-875a4b99-667e-4237-bce1-25962e622286


Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/4947977.Maggie_Lynch


Dust Jacket Author Interviews: https://www.dustjacketauthors.com/



Monday, September 13, 2021

Gotta be in it to win it!

 By: Marcia King-Gamble

www.lovemarcia.com

 Remember that old Kenny Rogers song?

You've got to know when to hold 'em
Know when to fold 'em
Know when to walk away
And know when to run
You never count your money
When you're sittin' at the table
There'll be time enough for countin'
When the dealin's done

I choose to interpret Kenny’s lyrics to mean life is about making little adjustments, and at times taking a different approach.  It’s about change; the C word so many of us fear.

Why is change something we fear?  I think it’s because over the years we fall into comfortable routines, because predictability makes us think we have control of our lives.  

Routines can stifle creativity, and ultimately lead to boredom. Routines also prevents us from handling the curve balls life throws us . No wonder when all hell breaks loose some crumble and some are paralyzed. Others depend on friends and family to get them back on track.




Routines and a reluctance to change can also make for a boring lifestyle. In fact, one of the reasons many marriages fail is because things get stale.  Boredom to me is a fate worse than death, but changing things up can prevent us from falling into a rut.  Instead of looking at change as something to avoid, why not look at it as a test of resiliency and a way to keep your creative juices flowing. Change can be an opportunity for personal growth, Embrace it with flexibility and keep an open mind.

Had I not kept an open mind and adopted flexibility as a way of life, I would be not be where I am today. I’d be a totally different person with a whole different lifestyle. 

You're hearing from a woman who had an alpha male  father; a man who thought that women should have secretarial skills. It was what made us marketable.  His thinking irritated me so much I refused to learn to type, (something I still regret.  I’m a two-finger pecker.) My dad could not understand why I wanted to go away to college and incur the expense of  room and board. After all, we had a perfectly fine home.   I, on the other hand, wanted to be independent.  I wanted a change of pace from New York City, and going to a small upstate town with a Main Street would be something different.

Once I got that college degree, instead of settling into a mundane job, I became an international flight attendant, which meant I was flying off to exotic countries more often than most people take buses. That was yet another thing my father didn’t understand, though he eventually got used to my wanderlust.

Being adaptable and willing to change, allowed me to live in 5 states and enjoy all the good things any city has to offer. Over time, I've had several jobs (careers). One of these jobs even opened the door to the writing world.  Had I been averse to change, that would never have happened.

Getting out of my comfort zone, also led to a free trip to Malawi. It allowed me to meet people I never would have encountered. It exposed me to a variety of cultures, foods and experiences.   

All this to say, “If you do what you’ve always done, then you’ll get what you always gotten.”  That is not necessarily always good.

So, I challenge you to shake things up a bit and make small changes. Life is way too short for saying shoulda-coulda-woulda.

Get out there and do it!  Don't have regrets. Do it your way!

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Coming October 19th!


About Marcia King-Gamble

Romance writer, Marcia King-Gamble originally hails from a sunny Caribbean island where the sky and ocean are the same mesmerizing shade of blue. This former travel industry executive has spent most of life in the United States. A National Bestselling author, Marcia has penned over 34 books and 8 novellas. She has contributed to Michael Fiore’s DigitalRomanceInc and served as a moderator on the now defunct eHarmony advice boards.  Having witnessed the bad, the ugly, and the not so good in relationships, she still prefers to write about happily ever after. Caring for her animal family keeps her grounded and sane.

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Thursday, June 3, 2021

Cherishing Relationships

 



There is nothing like a pandemic to teach us the importance of human connection. All of a sudden we were restricted from gathering, let alone touching, other humans outside of our immediate household. In some areas, they were called Pods. That term reminded me of a sci-fi movie. Which is what the entire past year and half has felt like.

While we had to maintain distance from friends and family, lots of us went online and forged new online friendships and relationships. I did a lot of that as a new author, and formed online relationships with people that morphed into chats, online Messenger calls on Facebook, or even Zoom, which became a meeting staple this past year.

But my heart went out to the younger folks and to those who had to figure out ways to meet and date people during a pandemic. My daughter got caught up in it, and she made friends online or met new ones through her video gaming programs. While this was good to stay connected to other humans, nothing takes the place of face-to-face contact.

Some relationships that were strained before covid fell apart as a result of forced proximity. Others became closer to their partner or spouse. I was fortunate to experience the latter, though it took some work. The cool thing was, I learned about myself in the process. If an argument popped up I had to decide: Is it worth arguing about? Who cares if I forgot to buy coffee creamer or whose turn it was to pick up doggie doodoo? 


As a romance writer, one of the tropes we write about is forced proximity, where people are in situations where they're forced to stay together for a while. A common one in romance, for example, is a blizzard or snowstorm, which I see a lot in northern latitude stories.

I learned even more about my spouse, despite being together for decades. I got to know him as a changed, older person. In my second novel I wrote about self forgiveness, forgiving others, and redemption after screw-ups...so I paid closer attention to the interactions I had with my spouse. How often was I willing to forgive him when things went south? Or forgive myself for saying or doing something stupid?

If there's anything this past year and a half has taught me, it's patience and flexibility, where family and spouse relationships are concerned. I'm a better listener now. I'm more patient with long explanations. When I ask my spouse what time it is and he tells me how the watch was made, I don't come unglued anymore. Instead I listen, fully aware that he has no one else to use as a sounding board when he tries to figure out the wiring harness for our car and boat trailer. He processes out loud and I've learned to ask questions to help him. I never did this before, I was too impatient.

Now? I make a habit of saying I'm grateful for something each day when I wake up. At this point in life I'm just grateful I'm waking up! I value my friends and family more now than ever before. But the biggest thing I've learned from all this: Never again will I take anyone or anything for granted. Especially toilet paper LOL.

Mostly, I'm grateful for the person I chose to share my life with, lo those many years ago. We have a long shared history. 

And that is priceless.


I'm thrilled to announce my second novel, Alaska Inferno is now on Amazon. It released May 31st and so far I'm thrilled to say the reviews are wonderful.

 GET INFERNO HERE!

Watch the book trailer for ALASKA INFERNO!

LoLo Paige was a wildland firefighter for the U.S. Forest Service and the U.S. Bureau of Land Management, Alaska Fire Service. She's an award-winning author of two novels in the Blazing Hearts Wildfire Series, Alaska Spark and soon to be released Alaska Inferno. Her stories contain edge-of-the-seat, invigorating action, strong-willed female firefighters and romantic suspense. LoLo and her husband divide their time between their oceanside beach house in Kachemak Bay, Alaska and sunny Arizona. 

What readers have said about LoLo's books... 

"I could almost feel the heat of the wildfires that surrounded the crews as they staved off threats..."

"The men are wild and yummy and the women are strong and lovingly feisty. The plot moves along at a fast pace..."

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