Showing posts with label grateful. Show all posts
Showing posts with label grateful. Show all posts

Thursday, November 14, 2024

Grateful for Writing Groups by Lynn Lovegreen


November is a great month because of Thanksgiving. Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday because it focuses on family, food, and gratitude. What can be better than that?  I am thankful for many things in my life, including my family, my friends, and my home. Today, I’m going to write about something else I am grateful for: my writing groups.


 

I belong to several writing groups, including 49 Writers, the Alaska Writers Guild, RWA (Romance Writers of America), SCBWI (the Society of Children’s Book Writers and Illustrators), and local chapters AKRWA and SCBWI-AK. (Full disclosure: I’ve been active in RWA’s reformation toward a more inclusive writing community, and I am the President of AKRWA.) While my participation varies now and then, all of these groups have helped me grow as a writer.

 

Writing groups give many benefits to writers. They provide information about the craft and business of writing through programs such as classes, webinars, and conferences. Many host critique groups, which in my experience is one of the best ways writers can enhance their writing process and improve their writing. And I am thankful for the camaraderie—I love to hang out with other people who have characters running around in their heads and understand the highs and lows of the writing life.

 

If you don’t have one now, I encourage you to look into writing groups to find one that suits your interests. Here are a couple links for ideas:

https://www.rwa.org

https://www.scbwi.org

 

Whether you’re just starting out on your writing journey, or you’ve been on the path for years, I encourage you to create your own writing community. Find a writing group that supports you, and you’ll have much to be grateful for.

 

Happy Thanksgiving!


Lynn Lovegreen has lived in Alaska for most of her life. After twenty years in the classroom, she retired to make more time for writing. She enjoys her friends and family, reading, and volunteering for her local library. Her young adult historical romance is set in Alaska, a great place for drama, romance, and independent characters. See her website at www.lynnlovegreen.com. 

Monday, August 23, 2021

Thankful for Learning New Things

 By Courtney Pierce

I’m thankful for many, many things in life, but I have to say that 2021 took “being thankful” to new heights. I’ve lived through turbulent times, not like the atrocities experienced in WW2, but close. Lock downs, censorship, distancing, and tearing apart of the family unit in schools have weighed heavy on my heart. Their slave playbook is trying to rear its ugly head in current events, but it won’t work. We boomers have too much resilience to not overcome adversity. Although we may feel drowned out by yelling, accusations, and downright lies, we have a voice . . . a big voice.

After more than forty years, we’re finally getting to the truth. Some of the nuggets we may not like; others might blow us away. That’s a subject for another blog in about six months. History in the making is still bubbling on the stove. Truth serum. Veritas elixir.

Spring of 2021 sprang forth with an idea when my career industry shut down. No concerts, no Broadway shows, no gathering of entertainment.  I switched gears to work at a local family-owned nursery while I finished my new book. My mother was a commercial organic gardener and got the bug. I learned all the Almanac wisdom from her and my grandmother.  My husband added more. It was a priority for us to create our own sustainable garden.

But after working in a huge commercial nursery that was beloved throughout the entire Flathead Valley, I found my niche. I learned much from dealing with the public . . . not just any public.  Most of the 40-year customers had been coming there to pay top dollar for beauty, walk the aisles with their dogs, talk about their kids, and seek help for what they didn’t know.

Other than getting back into shape at 22,000 steps a day (according to my FitBit), I reveled in working physically hard. Next came listening to the 30-year-experts who gave me plant advice. I drank in every detail of alchemy of our area, trends of varieties, and optimum conditions of our Zone. There’s a lot more to sticking a plant in the ground and expecting it to grow.

I had an epiphany that I’d stumbled into something special and quite personal: the customers.

“Are you looking for annuals that do well in sun or shade? Or would you like perennials that come back every year?”

“What’s your favorite color combination?”

“How much time do you have to water?”

Greenhouse after greenhouse, I zigzagged to show off our thousands of living trophies. These questions were how I got so many physical steps, so many overflowing carts, and so many hugs of thanks. Through our human connection, the customers were thankful, and so was I. I reveled in helping puzzle the plants and baskets into their cars and SUVs. The customers who wanted to plant their gardens, plant by plant, inspired me to spend the time to help them achieve the daily joy of blooms. The joy hung from their porches, graced their raised beds, encircled their mail boxes.

That was the goal . . . the crowning achievement of helping others.  My customers were ecstatic about leaving with their garden transformations of plants. Like me, they wanted to nurture living plants and help them thrive. I had no agenda except to make them happy.

As a writer, I captured that emotion and incorporated into my prose. You can’t make this stuff up. I have to experience the emotion of what I write, even if it’s a fictional story. I was accused once by a boss for being too benevolent. Their negative accusation was a personal badge of honor for me.

Every 25 years or so, we move up one generational seat on the life bus. In my teens, I remember thinking what it would be like to be grown up, taking care of myself, earning my future security, and being “old.” Back then, old age was imagining future life in my sixties. I’ve now arrived at the place that seemed so far away. I’m pretty darned close to the driver seat on the bus. The good news is that I still feel as young as I did in my teens. The only difference is that I have more wisdom from experience . . .  gain and loss, joy and sorrow, enlightenment and disillusionment.

My husband and I, my siblings, and my in-law siblings will soon take over as drivers of the bus, to maneuver through the curves and obstacles of what our current turbulent life has to offer us. We boomers are heartbroken to let go of the generation above us, those who’ve put their heart into investing our generation. If not already, they’ve handed over the wheel of trust to us. We can’t let them down, and we will get through the summits and valleys ahead.

At stake is everything right now, but when we stand tall, we will still have our country, our freedoms, and our sovereignty. Freedom is a precious gift we must hold dear. It can still slip from our fingers when we look the other way or have our voices censored. Our flag is an amazing symbol, along with all those who’ve died to fight for it. We’re not chattel who have to show “papers” to shop, travel, or eat at a restaurant. It’s happening in real time. Check out Australia, New Zealand, France, and the United Kingdom.

We’re at a crossroads of tyranny or freedom. We can’t "unsee" what’s about to put in front of us. We can feel it ramping up.  No more sleeping or blind trust.

In spite of everything that’s happening in the world,  I’m thankful for my family. They hold my spirit in their hands, and I hold theirs.

Co
urtney Pierce is a fiction writer living in Kalispell, Montana with her husband and stepdaughter. She writes for the baby boomer audience. She spent 28 years as an executive in the entertainment industry and used her time in a theater seat to create stories that are filled with heart, humor, and mystery. She studied craft and storytelling at the Attic Institute and has completed the Hawthorne Fellows Program for writing and publishing. Active in the writing community, Courtney is a board member of the Northwest Independent Writers Association and on the Advisory Council of the Independent Publishing Resource Center. She is a member of Willamette Writers, Pacific Northwest Writers Association, and Authors of the Flathead. The Executrix received the Library Journal Self-E recommendation seal.

Print and E-books are available through most major online retailers, including Amazon.com.
Check out all of Courtney's books: 


New York Times best-selling author Karen Karbo says, "Courtney Pierce spins a madcap tale of family grudges, sisterly love, unexpected romance, mysterious mobsters and dog love. Reading Indigo Lake is like drinking champagne with a chaser of Mountain Dew. Pure Delight."

Coming in 2022!


When Aubrey Cenderon moves to Montana after the death of her father, the peace and quiet of Big Sky Country becomes complicated with a knock on the door from the sheriff. An injured grizzly bear is on the loose and it must be eliminated before it kills again. The sheriff's insistence that she buy a gun for protection will present Aubrey with some serious soul-searching, because the grizzly-on-the-run is hunting her too . . . for a different reason.





Sunday, August 8, 2021

Thankful for so Much!

 

By:  Marcia King-Gamble

www.lovemarcia.com

Thank you, seems to be a much forgotten word these days. Those two little words seem to have gone the way of the dinosaur. I mean, how difficult is it to say? 

Call me old fashioned, but if I hold a door open for you, at the very least you can say, “Thank you.” If I did something nice for a neighbor, like take your garbage in from the curb, then I would think it only courteous to say, “thank you.” I don't think I'm asking for much,

 If I’ve taken the time to send you a gift, it would be nice to know it was received, and it would be even nicer to get a “thank you” for being thoughtful. You don’t have to buy me anything. You don’t even have to cook me dinner.  I’m not even asking you to call. I’ll take a text ‘thank you.”

 Back in the day, my mother made me write thank you notes to anyone who sent me a gift or invited me to a party. Today, I’d simply settle for an acknowledgement that I’ve taken time out of my day to do something nice for you. I’m not sure why so many feel a sense of entitlement to the point that the word “thanks “ has become  extinct, but they do.

Should I blame it on poor parenting? I mean, why should I or anyone have to call to see if the gift card I sent was received? It would seem to me that if I did you a favor, good manners would dictate a “thank you” would follow.

If we look back over the past year, and all we’ve been through, you’d think that those two words would have even more meaning. You’d think we would be kinder, and more in tune to the fact that those two little words have weight, and are more meaningful. Gratitude should be an overall attitude.



We should be counting our blessings and grateful to be here. Because after a   year of lockdown, we’re getting out there again and breathing fresh air. Last year, so many people were out of work and barely holding on. Shouldn’t we be thankful that jobs are opening again, and we are back at work and picking up those lives that were placed on hold?

I know I’m very grateful to be alive and able to read this blog. I’m grateful that a vaccine was found.

I’m thankful for good health and that my family remains whole.And  I’m both thankful and grateful to be able to tell the stories running through my head.  I’m especially thankful to you my readers,for letting me write the books of my heart. Where would I be without you- readers and friends?


October is right around the corner and on the 19th, Holiday Fake-Out will be released. It’s a holiday anthology featuring 21 other writers. My contribution is titled, Kwanzaa ‘Pon A Time. 

You can pre-order the eBook here:

Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08WM377B8

iTunes: https://books.apple.com/us/book/holiday-fakeout-22-fake-holiday-dates-to-heat-up-the-season/id1553924330

Kobo: https://www.kobo.com/us/en/ebook/holiday-fakeout-22-fake-holiday-dates-to-heat-up-the-season

 

I am very thankful to be in anthology featuring NY Times Bestseller, Heather Graham and 20 other talented authors. Thank you, ladies. It’s been a pleasure working with you. I say this with a grateful heart.

 

 About Marcia King-Gamble

Romance writer, Marcia King-Gamble originally hails from a sunny Caribbean island where the sky and ocean are the same mesmerizing shade of blue. This former travel industry executive has spent most of life in the United States. A National Bestselling author, Marcia has penned over 34 books and 8 novellas. She has contributed to Michael Fiore’s DigitalRomanceInc and served as a moderator on the now defunct eHarmony advice boards.  Having witnessed the bad, the ugly, and the not so good in relationships, she still prefers to write about happily ever after. Caring for her animal family keeps her grounded and sane.

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Thursday, August 5, 2021

Lifelines

 



The things I am grateful for have changed over the last year and a half, as they have for most of us. After having to stay home more, our focus shifted to other things.  

So grateful for the gifts that my writing life has bestowed on me this past year. Couldn’t do it if it weren’t for my family and Rooby-Doo, our precocious golden retriever, who is my writing buddy. If not for them, writing just wouldn’t happen.

As much as I used to grumble about the evils of the Internet, I realized that without it, becoming an author would not have happened either. I took on a “What do I have to lose?” frame of mind, as I approached everything. I jumped in and took risks I was afraid to take before when it came to writing.

Grateful for my fun Anchorage girlfriends. We laugh so hard when we have lunch we forget about food and are shocked no one kicks us out of the restaurants. Grateful for my writing friends in Alaska and Outside. They’ve taught me so much. I’m awed by the generosity of the writing community everywhere. Writers are so giving and generous with advice, and freely share their wisdom.

I don’t take anything for granted anymore after this past year and a half. Before, I attended every writer’s conference I could afford. One of the highlights was traveling from Alaska to Dayton, Ohio, on the east coast for the Erma Bombeck Humor Writers Workshop. Back then I wanted to be a humor writer, so took a session where they made us get up onstage and tell a joke. Despite decades of comedy theatre acting I was terrified and stage-struck. All I could think of was to do my Sarah Palin imitation about seeing Russia from my Eagle River house. It brought the house down. I made the East Coasters laugh! That’s all I wanted—to make people laugh and forget their problems if only for a few seconds. I was so thankful I was able to do that.

I miss traveling. I had finally retired and hooked up with my cousin’s travel group out of California. We went everywhere the first three years…Spain, France, Portugal. Then the following year Germany, Austria and Eastern Europe. So much fun. I’m grateful for the friendships I formed with my new California travel family. Last year’s trip was canceled and this year’s as well. Fingers crossed we can go next year. In the meantime we all stay in touch online and through phone calls.

At the beginning of each year, our local writing group has us each set goals. I set the goal of publishing my first novel by the end of last year and it happened. Through our constant Zoom calls and efforts to stay in touch with each other, we helped each other stay on track. I’m so thankful for all of them. I made some new online friends that we can’t wait to meet each other in real life, whenever it’s more practical to do so.

It seems like now, I am more “in the moment” than I have ever been. Not seeing extended family and friends this past year taught me that every moment is precious, to be savored with all the gusto I can fit into my heart. Looking back, in some ways I felt cut off from so many. But in other ways, I connected with people I may not have otherwise…some became good friends and kindred souls that became lifelines for me in all kinds of ways.

And for all of this I am grateful. So very grateful.

LoLo Paige was a wildland firefighter for the U.S. Forest Service and the U.S. Bureau of Land Management, Alaska Fire Service. She's an award-winning author of two novels in the Blazing Hearts Wildfire Series, Alaska Spark and Alaska Inferno. Her stories contain edge-of-the-seat, invigorating action, strong-willed female firefighters, and romantic suspense. LoLo and her husband divide their time between their beach house in Kachemak Bay, Alaska and sunny Arizona. 


What readers have said about LoLo's books... 

"I could almost feel the heat of the wildfires that surrounded the crews as they staved off threats..."

"The men are wild and yummy and the women are strong and lovingly feisty. The plot moves along at a fast pace..."   Watch the book trailer for ALASKA INFERNO!   

 GET INFERNO HERE!

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Friday, September 11, 2020

Grateful!


By Diana McCollum

 

I’m Diana McCollum, a writer and the author of The Witch with the Trident Tattoo, a contemporary paranormal book about a contemporary sea witch and the coastal coven she belongs too. She is as much at home on land as in the sea. I’ve always been interested in myths, legends and science, and try to incorporate these subjects into my writing. 

 

During this time of isolation I have found many things to be grateful for. I thought I would share some happy and joyful things I’ve discovered.

 

1)    I go for a walk around the block every morning. Where we live the lots are quite large. Ours is an acre, most are between ½ acre and 5 acres. Most of the folks work in Central OR. Since the pandemic many have been forced to stay home or work from home or work part time. Because of these circumstances I have been able to meet many of my neighbors that I had not met before. Gone are the paid landscapers. Neighbors are out weeding, planting or mowing their yards. I wave and we chat from a distance. When I sit outside to read I can hear kids playing outside, which is a joy. Usually they are in school or at a sitter’s house. It feels like a neighborhood! 

2)    On my walk I pass out extra produce my husband has grown. The neighbors are delighted and it makes me feel good.

3)    My sister Sarah, Judith and I have a standing weekly Zoom meeting. We talk about everything. I see their smiling faces and it makes my whole week better! We laugh a lot. I’ve gotten to know Judith better and consider her my sister of my heart. They have given me so much. Love, support and laughter.

4)    I’ve been forced to find things to do. I’ve rekindled a love for sewing and working on crafts.

5)    Weekly calls to my children who live far away has brought me much joy. To hear how they and the grandkids are doing and keeping up on the goings on in their lives makes me happy. Those shared moments are so precious.

6)    And I am grateful for all my online friends. Without my writing loops and this blog I’d be sorely lacking in the beauty of friendship. For even though I haven’t met many of you in person I feel as if I know you.

 

What have you found to be grateful for during this pandemic?

Tuesday, June 16, 2015

GIVING BACK - Susan Horsnell

Gratitude - Being Thankful, Showing Appreciation for and returning Kindness.

This is the Oxford Dictionary Definition for the word - Gratitude.

My husband and I have had an incredibly fortunate life to this point. We have good health, good fortune and we are financially secure. We are retired and have not yet turned 60 and we travel a great deal. As a thank you for all we have, and to show we are grateful for every blessing bestowed upon us, we chose to support an animal which suffers so terribly at the hands of humans.


Our Sponsored Bear - Wilfred (Willie)

In general, people are more than willing to help their fellow humans but not so willing to help our animal friends. This is the reason we chose to sponsor a Moon Bear in China through a fabulous organization called Animals Asia.

THE ISSUE:

More than 10,000 bears – mainly moon bears, but also sun bears and brown bears – are kept on bile farms in China, and just under 2,000 in Vietnam. The bears are milked regularly for their bile, which is used in traditional medicine.

Bile is extracted using various painful, invasive techniques, all of which cause massive infection in the bears. This cruel practice continues despite the availability of a large number of effective and affordable herbal and synthetic alternatives.

Most farmed bears are kept in tiny cages. In China, the cages are sometimes so small that the bears are unable to turn around or stand on all fours. Some bears are put into cages as cubs and never released. Bears may be kept caged like this for up to 30 years. Most farmed bears are starved, dehydrated and suffer from multiple diseases and malignant tumours that ultimately kill them.

BEAR SANCTUARIES:

Animals Asia  operate bear sanctuaries in China and Vietnam where bears are rehabilitated and cared for and where their bear teams gather vital evidence of the effects of bile extraction.

Their world-class bear rescue centres in Chengdu, China and Tam Dao, Vietnam provide the bears with comfortable dens and semi-natural enclosures where they are able to recover in safety and spend the remaining years of their lives in the company of other bears. To date, 400 farmed bears have been received into their care.

During their rehabilitation at the rescue centres, the bears’ behaviour and well-being are closely monitored by the bear teams through regular health checks and daily observations. This not only ensures that the bears receive the best care possible, but also enables staff to gather vital scientific evidence on the physical and psychological effects of bile extraction.

Reports and papers published by the teams have helped to raise the profile of the moon bear within the scientific community and to increase public awareness of the terrible cruelty involved in the bear bile farming industry.

The sanctuaries also provide direct employment for over 250 Chinese and Vietnamese people in areas such as bear care, horticulture, food preparation and security. Several hundred local people are employed indirectly through services and construction. There is also an active and ongoing education program in these countries. There has been positive support from governments in China and Vietnam to finally rid the practice of bear bile farming.

HOW WE CAN HELP:

For further information go to the Animals Asia website at https://www.animalsasia.org/intl/our-work/end-bear-bile-farming/

ABOUT WILFRED - Willie

Wilfred is quite tall with a relatively big body. Sadly, he is blind in both eyes but is very gentle-tempered. He has smooth, shiny fur and likes eating fruit best. His favourite fruit is watermelon, and when we first rescued him, that was the only thing he would eat and so he was nicknamed "Watermelon". Now outside in the enclosures, Wilfred has a new lease on life, and is amazingly active despite his blindness, and loves to climb anything and everything!


I am enormously grateful for all I have and to be able to help this gorgeous animal puts a huge smile in my heart.

Until next month, remember - "What Goes Around, Comes Around."
It takes the same amount of effort to be kind as it does to be mean.
God Bless and Stay Safe
Sue

Western Historical Romance Author

Website:          http://horsnells.wix.com/susan--1

Blog:              http://susanhorsnell.com

Facebook:      https://www.facebook.com/westernlovin






Tuesday, November 11, 2014

Thanks for the Ticket, Officer!

by Madelle Morgan

Last week my sister was driving along a winding two lane rural highway when she was stopped for speeding.

"I didn't see the sign, sir," she pleaded, suspicious there wasn't a visible sign for reduced speed on the approach to the tiny community - a crossroads with a district police station and a few other buildings. 

One $50 ticket later she continued on her way, only to discover that a car accident had occurred minutes earlier. If it hadn't been for the delay, she'd potentially have been involved in that very accident.

My sister is grateful for that ticket.

The RTG theme for November is gratitude. Sometimes in the heat of the moment we are certainly not grateful for what life throws at us. We bemoan our terrible luck. We can't understand why bad things happen to good people. Down the road, however, like my sister we may change our minds.

A few years ago I was feeling guilty because we moved so often that my son did not put down roots in any community long enough to consider it a hometown. A wise woman asked me, "Where's the gift in that?" After thinking long and hard, I realized that the gift was freedom. 

While others of his graduating high school class were loath to move away from home for work or education, my son attended university on the Atlantic coast and a post-grad program on the Pacific coast, having never visited those places before. Years later he lives in a different city from me, travels for work and play, and has friends throughout North America.

Now I'm grateful that emotional ties to a hometown did not clip my son's wings.

Life may not go exactly as you hope and pray for, but in retrospect occasionally you may identify a positive benefit, a gift that was life-changing. Here are some examples that may resonate with you:

"I was devastated when my boyfriend dumped me, but otherwise I'd never have met the love of my life."

"He wasn't the man I wanted, but it turned out that he was the one I needed."

"I'm a better, more compassionate person that I was before the tragedy."

"Because of my relative's illness, I went into the health care field to help others."

"Even though I was devastated when I didn't make the team, otherwise I never would've had time to develop my talent for ____"

"The hardship made me realize that I possess the inner strength to accomplish anything."

"I have a speeding ticket, but I'm alive."

In retrospect, what are you grateful for?




www.madellemorgan.com

Tuesday, November 4, 2014

Twenty-five Unusual Things I Am Grateful For.

In the spirit of the season, I will now share twenty-five things I am truly grateful for:


  1. I got away with twelve years between colonoscopies. Score!
  2. Costco put laminate flooring on sale in 2007, making this year's puppy "accidents" no big deal.
  3. My lack of interest in cooking means I don’t have to remodel my 1982 kitchen.
  4. My husband acts as my Filipino houseboy and takes care of indoor things.
  5. My husband acts as my Mexican gardener and takes care of the landscaping.
  6. My husband laughs when I say this and adds, "And I'm her Latin lover."
  7. Viagra.
  8. The chance to hug my 27-year-old, 6'3" cover model and not be accused of anything untoward.
  9. The word untoward.
  10. The word scarletted – which I made up. And use frequently.
  11. Staying up until midnight, or later, every night. Then I climb into:
  12. our Sleep-Number bed, with 3" memory foam topper, and down pillows. Heaven.
  13. Dollar Store magnifying readers.
  14. Costco. Obviously.
  15. The BBC sitcom "Miranda" on Hulu Plus and YouTube. You're welcome.
  16. Free soda refills.
  17. Hard Rock Cafés in other countries, which give free soda refills.
  18. British Air, which flies to London non-stop from Phoenix every day, so I can go to the original Hard Rock Café and get free soda refills.
  19. That Keurig comes in a travel size.
  20. Real butter, cheese, and bacon.
  21. Cheap cholesterol meds.
  22. Cable.
  23. Android smart phones.
  24. Wine. (Kinda pissed at beer for having so many carbs and calories, I gotta be honest…)
  25. And, of course: Laughter.
Have a wonderful Thanksgiving!
Kris ;)